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Ask HN: What was the most stressful time in your life?

26 点作者 rodjons大约 4 年前

19 条评论

vncajules大约 4 年前
My wife couldn&#x27;t work because she had two young children with severe medical conditions, and she hasn&#x27;t worked since then. I have a decent career, but it never paid well enough. The company didn&#x27;t seem to mind that I was trying to support four people on my receiving salary.<p>It was hard for me; many sleepless nights are thinking about surviving with this low salary alone. I asked my boss for a raise; I was fired for requesting a raise. It was a dark time for me; I&#x27;ll struggle if I must, just for the sake of my beloved family.
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offtop5大约 4 年前
Second eviction by far.<p>LA is a horrible place to live , had I been 19 today I&#x27;d end up on the streets since housing is so much more expensive now. Stop thinking about what &quot;society&quot; will do to solve homelessness. Garcetti has no real ability, nor will , to fix LA. Leave while you still can. I had to estrange myself from my family , but hell. I went from 25k in credit card debt to 40k saved up. When I moved to Chicago my cost of living dropped by 30% , I had an amazing partner and for the first time in a good while felt hope. I can&#x27;t express enough how horrible LA is.<p>Leave now !
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rrradical大约 4 年前
Definitely dealing with an ending relationship. It was so hard to square the fact that I really liked and cared about the person but couldn&#x27;t see a future with them. I&#x27;ve never second guessed myself so much in my life and had never felt so hurtful to another person.
darthrupert大约 4 年前
One job I had was in many ways an awesome place with great people and was financially extremely solid. Technically a bit boring but that was kinda ok.<p>What was not ok was the second founder of the company, who was a dictionary definition of &quot;expert beginner&quot;, who was unable to accept other views except his own, and gleefully used his power to enforce his views. I ended up working against him in many places, initially with the full support of my team and manager, but then something flipped and I was going against him alone.<p>That&#x27;s the only job where I regurarily woke up in the middle of the night to a work-related dream and could not fall asleep for the rest of the night. I used to take pride for being flexible and not lashing out at other people just because I was having a hard time. But everyone has a breaking point, so I became inflexible and lashed out at people.<p>I hated who I had become. I was eventually sort of fired from that place, and have worked in several good places since, but I will never forget that... that feeling of the tribe I used to trust turning against me.
Grimm1大约 4 年前
Right now. The company I&#x27;m running is in a great position to start real growth, the market is right and large, our implementation is better than competitors and defensible from them. My co-founder and I are exactly the right people to be doing this. We have our 3rd time around YC interview coming up soon and Techstars also has some interest in us. I however have been full time for 5 months and have 2 months worth of savings left in my bank account. However, I have never believed in anything else I&#x27;ve co-founded as much as this before and I&#x27;m walking the edge to make it work. This is either going to go really well or really bad no middle ground, wish me luck!
kleer001大约 4 年前
As an adult? Being involuntarily unemployed at the beginning of my career. Circa 2001. Made about 10 phone calls a day for two months to land a crap job that paid the bills. Worst part? No decent marijuana around.<p>As a child? Being in love. Circa 15 y&#x2F;o. No male role models in my life, neglectful home. A recipe for disaster.<p>Thankfully, I figured all that shit out. IMHO Took longer than it should have (given an optimal setup and looking at my peers), but we all have to play the cards we&#x27;re dealt.
mcwalshq大约 4 年前
It was the start of the 2017 bear market. Bear cycle wiped out almost all of my savings from my portfolio. I can&#x27;t describe how stressed I am during those days. We should always have a backup plan in every decision we&#x27;re going to make. This scenario should serve as a learning experience for all of us.
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obayesshelton大约 4 年前
Now -<p>1) Went from being a contractor on a good day rate to being forced into being an employee (IR35 for the UK readers)<p>2) Taking a 13% pay cut<p>3) Due to point 1) I have zero money going into my business account<p>4) The business owes the government £16k<p>5) Due to 1), 3) and 4) I need to pay back money after tax to my company
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troubledandlost大约 4 年前
My childhood. Coming from a place with lots of (domestic) violence and severe psychological abuse.<p>Adulthood is troublesome as well for me, but it isn&#x27;t the most stressful so far. It feels like a never-ending ultra marathon on crutches. And that&#x27;s ADHD for me. Making my life harder for no real benefit.
heyuji78大约 4 年前
Being relieved from my job in 2010, I was so comfortable in my position to the point that I don&#x27;t see myself being relieved. I was shocked at that time; I can&#x27;t believe what just happened. I don&#x27;t have the guts to ask my employer what is the reason why I was leaving my job.
stvhnks大约 4 年前
The most stressful period of my life is nearly our graduation, but I haven&#x27;t received any job offers yet.<p>I have good grades; I created many side projects during my college days, but I still wonder why I can&#x27;t get any offers. I don&#x27;t know what to do at that time.
LaurensBER大约 4 年前
Graduating in the middle of the great recession. Searched 6 months for a job, found one in the end but seeing your savings evaporate while friends are really happy about getting a job delivering pizzas was quite stressful.
gligorot大约 4 年前
Working with a shitty business partner. An expensive (time wise) but worthy lesson.
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MichaelRazum大约 4 年前
Guess when I got into a really chilling &amp; nice job but with hostile work environment. It kind of was really bad. Although it become much much better with time. Was near quitting but didn&#x27;t.
d33lio大约 4 年前
Without a doubt college &#x2F; the one time I was unemployed for 6 months and desperately trying to find work while being too stressed to actually study for interviews.
unixhero大约 4 年前
Working for Accenture.
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donnanorton大约 4 年前
Probably the most stressful period of my life was when I was studying in the university in a different city.
atat7024大约 4 年前
Now.
xtnmclain大约 4 年前
Why is working for Accenture is a stressful time? I am genuinely curious, May I know the details about it? I am currently studying CS, and I would like to learn more about Accenture as it is one of the best IT companies.
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