<p><pre><code> The two-slit experiment.
1. Single photon still produces interference pattern!
2. Ask which slit photon passes - pattern disappears
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This kind of explanation is common, and it has always bothered me, because it's the wrong sort of mental model.<p>The interference pattern doesn't disappear "because we're looking", or "because we're asking", or "because we thought about finding the answer".<p>It disappears because in order to check which slit a photon passed through, we need some way of measuring that. To do so, we need some way to "see" the photon; to do that, we need to shine photons on it; and it is <i>that</i> which destroys the interference pattern.<p>The reason quantum mechanics is "weird" is because it (currently) is fundamentally impossible to invent a device to answer the question "which slit did the photon pass through?" without destroying the interference pattern.<p>However, that <i>doesn't</i> mean it disappears "because we're asking". The interference pattern is destroyed because our device, no matter what it is, will <i>always</i> interfere with the experiment (shining photon A at a photon B == "well <i>obviously</i> that would change the behavior of photon B"). Nothing more, nothing less.