Congrats on building something people want AND exiting! Thanks for writing about your experience (this was the good kind of post mortem)<p>I think another consideration for a (good) founder is "what happens to my team". If I had spent 2-3y building a great team, and had normal startup equity distribution (founders had a lot relative to virtually all employees), there would be a bit of a disconnect in motivations.<p>Selling a company where you own 10-20% for $100mm is life changing, at least for me. Even if it means working for a really shitty acquirer (e.g. Yahoo) for 2 or even 4 years, that might be enough money to make it personally worthwhile. After all, you could kick back and emphasize "work/life balance", especially after years of startups -- maybe work on non-commercial side projects, maybe teach or take classes, do hobbies, etc., while working at a stable job. Then do your own awesome company, self funded (or VC financed on very favorable terms) in a few years.<p>However, for employees, it might only be $50-500k of equity payout. That still leaves an employee in the "must work for a living" category, and I personally would be a whole lot happier going to work every day for an awesome small team at an independent company, or for a great acquirer or a PE/fund style "hands off" acquirer (where the team/product stays intact), than to get a $50-100k bonus to go work for Yahoo for 2 years.<p>A lot of the entrepreneurs I respect the most, who have recently done M&A deals, explicitly valued "what happens to the employees and the company" pretty highly. A lot of them ended up selling to companies like Amazon which have kept operations intact at their acquisitions, vs. the Yahoo-style glue factory.