Whilst I dont nessecarily disagree with the authors points, and they make some good ones, they seem to forget that historically, masculinaty wasn't about "humiliating your enemy", in fact that would be seen as poor form and unsportsman like. Obviously that differs from sport to sport and culture to culture, and some sports even maintain that (particularly some of the more aggressive sports oddly enough, like rugby). Sports haven't changed from aggressive to soft, they've changed from polite to aggressive to soft, and probably took another form before they were polite.<p>So yeh, I think he makes some good points, but as always, its a bit more complicated than that