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The High Cost of Men's Loneliness

53 点作者 wyrm超过 3 年前

5 条评论

gr1zzlybe4r超过 3 年前
I&#x27;ve recently started opening up to more people about this in my personal life. Like many others on here, I&#x27;ve worked remote now since March 2020, and the lack of interpersonal interaction with others during my work days has taken a great personal toll. I still go out with my significant other and see other people as well when we go out, but I&#x27;ve found it really hard to get meaning out of work when I don&#x27;t see people. That, coupled with a move to a new city (to be closer to outdoor activities), has meant that I&#x27;ve struggled with feelings of loneliness.<p>I think part of the problem is that admitting this type of feeling is seen as personal weakness in men but perfectly acceptable for a woman to talk about. When men say they&#x27;re lonely, it&#x27;s often hard to find other men to talk about it with. I know that I&#x27;ll get out of it because I&#x27;m pretty extroverted, but just thought I&#x27;d give my personal (and recent) experience with what this article is talking about.
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nunez超过 3 年前
This article is interesting. I don’t think the loneliness that OP is talking about here is universally bad.<p>I don’t have any close friends. I have a social media presence, but aside from Reddit (with which I only use the comments features), I don’t use those platforms at all. I’ve never been unhappy with this arrangement though; in fact, I love my time alone.<p>However, I have heaps of acquaintances (i.e. folks in my contacts list that I don’t call or see often) and am social when I go out. I know how to strike up conversation and know how to have and be a good time. I enjoy these activities, but doing without doesn’t impact me negatively unless I spend many many months not doing that.
PaulHoule超过 3 年前
I know the cost. What do we do about it?
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Mirioron超过 3 年前
Does this apply to people who play video games? If you play social games like MMOs you&#x27;re pretty much forced to interact with others. Does that help in any way combat the issues?
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idinnoaname超过 3 年前
Interestingly enough there are a lot of comments in this thread that seemingly support the authors statements.