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Anti-mimetic tactics for living a counter-cultural life

632 点作者 Ariarule超过 3 年前

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kayodelycaon超过 3 年前
There’s a lot of good stuff in here, things I’ve used in my personal life to great effect.<p>The really important thing here (that’s hinted at towards the end) is moderation.<p>Do some of these things. A little at a time. Find what works and what doesn’t.<p>Saying the truth no matter what the cost is extremely dangerous advice to follow literally.<p>Pick battles you can win. Know when saying the truth matters and when it doesn’t. Know when your “truth” is just another opinion no one around you at that moment agrees with.<p>As my dad always told me, “you can be dead right.”<p>Life is too short to be miserable trying to obtain someone else’s goals. It is too short to optimize everything. Remember that happiness in the moment matters. (But not at the expense of the future.)<p>You’ll never find me reading a book I don’t like or skipping using GPS, because things cause more stress than benefit.<p>Having a car break down and having a magical moment because of it? Do the opposite. Actively seek those moments by finding people to help instead of waiting for the moment to happen.<p>If I have any advice to add, it is be honest and be kind. Fight when you need to fight, make peace when you don’t. You don’t need to fix everything, just make the world better by being in it.
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PaulDavisThe1st超过 3 年前
Liked most of this except #1<p>&gt; Discovering and living out a sense of calling — a personal vocation, or something you are uniquely meant to do — is the ultimate way to cut through the mimetic noise of the world and begin to shape both a moral and a vocational compass.<p>There are on the order of 7 billion human beings on earth. We don&#x27;t all have a personal vocation or something we are uniquely meant to do. One of the keys to leading a happy and fulfilled life is being able to be content to live within the bounds that most of us operate in. Most of us are not uniquely gifted, not particularly special, not here to do one thing in this world. But we can be kind, be helpful, try to do as little damage to other people and the world as we can, to find value in things that last and do not cost the world very much, to enjoy our lives regardless of what we do for a living, not because of it.<p>It may be a gift from the Renaissance to believe in individuality in the way that #1 clearly does, but it&#x27;s a gift that doesn&#x27;t scale to huge populations (it may not even have been right with much smaller ones). It&#x27;s wonderful to live in a society that allows for individual self-discovery and self-expression, but we should not blind us to the reality that almost all of us are not on a unique, singular mission.
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eat_veggies超过 3 年前
It&#x27;s hilarious that this is standard self-help advice designed to make you a better worker, packaged up as something subversive or &quot;anti-mimetic.&quot; I am reminded of Mark Fisher:<p>&quot;Witness, for instance, the establishment of settled &#x27;alternative&#x27; or &#x27;independent&#x27; cultural zones, which endlessly repeat older gestures of rebellion and contestation as if for the first time. &#x27;Alternative&#x27; and &#x27;independent&#x27; don&#x27;t designate something outside mainstream culture; rather, they are styles, in fact <i>the</i> dominant styles, within the mainstream.&quot;
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PragmaticPulp超过 3 年前
This section is particularly important and worth re-reading:<p>&gt; Being “anti-mimetic” does not mean being a ‘contrarian’ or refusing to imitate one’s peers. That’s what every hipster thinks he’s doing, too. “Everyone leaves the beaten path only to fall into the same ditch,” wrote the social theorist René Girard, the father of mimetic theory. This kind of naive rejection of the culture is not what we’re talking about here.<p>This mindset runs deep in tech communities, where some people seem to think they can build a personality around doing everything differently than others. It’s the person who can’t resist the urge to remind everyone that they don’t use a popular text editor, programming language, or operating system.<p>I’m actually all for exploring the less popular path and trying different things. It becomes a problem, however, when someone can only view every choice as a false dichotomy in which only one option can be chosen. And of course, they’ll find a way to casually mention how they chose the less popular of the two options every time it comes up. They <i>need</i> everyone to know they are different (which they believe is equivalent to being better).
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noduerme超过 3 年前
I <i>am</i> the guy that throws a wrench into my friends&#x27; plans for where to have a drink, or where to go for dinner. This guy should take a break and write some self-help garbage for nonconformists who want to be a little more socially chill. But I guess that&#x27;s not where the money is.<p>This kind of pedantic talking-like-a-successful-guy to weak-minded-people shit nauseates me. Mark Manson made a great career out of it. It&#x27;s Joe Rogan&#x27;s bread and butter. Dress it up in all the pseudo-historical philosophy you want, it reads exactly the same way.<p>The best take-down ever of this is the rather forced performance given by Tom Cruise&#x27;s character in &quot;Magnolia&quot;. The writing and direction of that piece of social commentary was one of the things that made me think PT Anderson was almost as good as JD Salinger at deconstructing the mind of conformist-wannabe-rebels.
woodruffw超过 3 年前
This reads like a Buzzfeed listicle for people who hate Buzzfeed listicles.<p>By all means, please do read more books, consume less frivolously, watch old &quot;under-rated&quot; films, &amp;c. But do it because you want to do it, not because some weirdo on the internet told you that it&#x27;ll make you &quot;counter-cultural.&quot;
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tiagod超过 3 年前
This is one of the most pretentious and ironic pieces of writing I&#x27;ve ever seen on HN front-page. Maybe only surpassed by pg&#x27;s &quot;How to think for yourself&quot; being #1.
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civilized超过 3 年前
I don&#x27;t know, man. Why is living a counter-cultural life considered desirable? It&#x27;s because there was this thing called the counter-culture in the 1960s and now it&#x27;s considered cool. Seems like just another form of imitation to me.<p>For me this sort of discourse always comes back to the same basic truth: if you want to live an authentic and worthwhile life, you need to decide what you value and not just what you are rebelling against. This is the only ticket out of eternal adolescence.
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grassgreener超过 3 年前
These are fantastic advices to turn into an arrogant insufferable person. I used to be that person, it’s miserable. There is a lot of good in drinking the social kool aid and embracing our cultural quirks
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champagnois超过 3 年前
For someone who talks so much of loathing social media, they seemingly do very little to avoid it.<p>Acknowledging the technology is basically poison at scale, maybe remove it from your life so you do not suffer the same brainrot as the masses.<p>The great Naval once wrote: Be wary of anything that uses the word &quot;social&quot;.<p>Social Media is conditioning people to discuss moral crusades, launch moral crusades, and dwell on moral crusades. Humans are being conditioned to write and say things that inspire anger towards the opposition, because that is the best approach to getting likes, upvotes, and subscribes. Poison for your mind.
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paganel超过 3 年前
As other HN-ers have mentioned this is a really good article over all, just wanted to add something extra related to this part:<p>&gt; Not all who wander are lost. And sometimes, I like to drive with absolutely no destination at all.<p>more exactly a link to <i>la Dérive</i> [1]:<p>&gt; The dérive is a revolutionary strategy originally put forward in the &quot;Theory of the Dérive&quot; (1956) by Guy Debord, (...) It is an unplanned journey through a landscape, usually urban, in which participants drop their everyday relations and &quot;let themselves be drawn by the attractions of the terrain and the encounters they find there&quot;<p>[1] <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;D%C3%A9rive" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;D%C3%A9rive</a>
kayo_20211030超过 3 年前
This chap needs a decent editor. The tone is dissonant. Maybe, there&#x27;s some decent stuff in here, but who&#x27;d know? In the same sentence we encounter &quot;Nobody wants to be the disagreeable, anti-mimetic guy&quot; and then, &quot;grab a beer or a bite to eat&quot;. I don&#x27;t know for sure, but the person with whom I want to &quot;grab a beer&quot; doesn&#x27;t know wtf an &quot;anti-mimetic guy&quot; is. Write it up, or write it down, but FFS, just write it for the reader you&#x27;re trying to reach. Don&#x27;t try to fit in so many buzzwords (mimicry?). It&#x27;s rare that ideas are new, so you&#x27;re better off just trying to express them more clearly, and move on from there.
javajosh超过 3 年前
This is a path to more meaning and engagement, but at the cost of much more misery. Post-modernism is lame, but Lyotard&#x27;s &quot;tyranny of consensus&quot; is real - the vast majority of people do NOT want to be challenged, and these days it feels like the ones that need to be challenged are on the edge of violence.<p>At least in this time and place (2021 USA), keep your head down. At least for now.
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noodleman超过 3 年前
How do people actually read this and take it seriously? It&#x27;s listicle level non-conformist hogwash, ran through a thesaurus. By all means, watch more old movies and read more books. But don&#x27;t pretend it makes you anything other than pretentiously edgy.
arpa超过 3 年前
Being anti-mimetic and following lists is kind of... mimetic, ain&#x27;t it?
ianbutler超过 3 年前
I read this and while I view some of the points as good advice, like others have pointed out -- being counter cultural for the sake of it is a path to misery. Articles like this miss one crucial overarching point and that is, what ever you do in life, do it intentionally. Go with the flow, don&#x27;t go with the flow -- whatever as long as every once in a while you have a think and ask yourself &quot;is this really what I want out of life&quot; if it is great keep on keeping on but if it&#x27;s not then think about what you have to do to change your life to get to where you want to be, doing what you want to do. Don&#x27;t be merely an observer in your own life.
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durpleDrank超过 3 年前
When the RIAA (and by extension music streaming services) went after youtube-dl I decided to orchestrate my media consumption a lot differently. I started to collect tapes and cds again. Same goes for movies.<p>My rational is that David Bowie isn&#x27;t collecting those streaming royalties anyway and his estate is getting 0.0005 cents per play so isn&#x27;t it better to own a physical copy and not line the pockets of lawyers who think they can go around dictating FOSS projects?<p>Honestly it&#x27;s kind of fun too. Ripping your collection to FLAC and setting up a samba share is a nice Sunday afternoon project.<p>The writing is on the wall, this will only get worse.
giantg2超过 3 年前
Just remember, society will have an implict bias against anyone is is not like them. I happen to fit many of the suggestions in the list and it has gotten me nowhere.
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steelstraw超过 3 年前
This is perhaps the most important point right now in our increasingly polarizing society:<p>“The time has come for us to forgive one another. If we wait any longer there will not be time enough.” He understood that the only way that we wouldn’t be ‘battling to the end’ in a never-ending mimetic escalation is through an anti-mimetic movement away from violence and retribution and toward reconciliation and peace.
rgrieselhuber超过 3 年前
Mimetic frenzy is the engine behind accusatory networks (as we see with cancel culture) and revolutionary movements that result in incredible amounts of bloodshed and destruction when left unchecked. Refusing to accuse in one’s personal life and instead focusing on measured reaction as a counter-mimetic approach to these movements is the way to remain human in the midst of it all.
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jackyinger超过 3 年前
Here’s a few little tricks I use. These may seem trivial and silly, but given that mimetic behavior is rooted in a very basic level of existence, I believe these counter mimetic attitude exercises are useful in maintaining the foundation of a anti-mimetic Maslow’s hierarchy.<p>When I know I’m going to be exposed to a video advertisement I summon all of the rage and contempt I can to make my mental state as unlikely to retain the ad’s message as possible.<p>I take perverse pleasure in letting my devices alarms&#x2F;notifications ring without rushing to attend to them. Similarly I talk back to the maps directions voice.
WFHRenaissance超过 3 年前
I like this article, and I also like the Girardian theory&#x2F;terminology, but I wish I could send this to my younger brother without him having to muck through the context of RG and mimetic theory.<p>I know it would sort&#x27;ve just become a self-help article at that point. There&#x27;s been a deluge of those lately, most of which are of s** quality and usually preaching the sort of &quot;hustle hard bro&quot; message Luke decries, but I just think this sort of stuff would _actually_ do well on TikTok with a smidge of substitution for the more core-RG terminology.
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emodendroket超过 3 年前
&gt; Read Foreign Newspapers<p>Depends on which ones... gets a little dispiriting to realize I just labored through what was actually a Japanese translation of an article from Reuters originally written in English.<p>In a wider sense, if you&#x27;re actively trying to go against the grain of society, they&#x27;ve already got you, in a way.
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jonstewart超过 3 年前
I was thinking, jeez, there’s a whole lot of Christian mysticism in this article, and so it’s not surprising —- indeed, downright mimetic —- to read the author’s at Catholic University.
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FourthProtocol超过 3 年前
<i>#13. Social Media with a Purpose</i> made me pause - I have two Instagram accounts, and a Facebook account.<p>Instagram 1 is for family and friends. It&#x27;s snapshots of daily life for family and friends all over the world.<p>Instagram 2 is for others that like me enjoy making radio-controlled replica cars and trucks from flat sheets of styrene.<p>Facebook is to let people who know me find me.<p>Why would one NOT have a reason for social media? Anything as mundane as keeping up with distant friends and family is reason enough, no? And of course that&#x27;s going to forever remain mimetic unless you&#x27;re a business. That&#x27;s why there&#x27;s the word &quot;social&quot; in social media, or did I miss the boat?<p>TikTok for entertainment. Twitter to be heard... I can&#x27;t believe one would have any kind of social media account without a purpose. Even if it&#x27;s showing off your wealth, or pretending to be something you&#x27;re not - they&#x27;re all reasons, no?
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xwdv超过 3 年前
At first I thought this was about <i>Antimemetic</i> tactics which would be far more useful as a lot of time and potential for original thoughts is wasted through the absorption of memes these days. Memes tend to stay in my head far longer than what seems healthy and makes it harder to be truly creative and imagine novel ideas.
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r3trohack3r超过 3 年前
The deep bookshelf rings true to me. I use <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;audile.app" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;audile.app</a> for exactly this - but in music.<p>A book version would be neat.
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DoreenMichele超过 3 年前
Eh. Some of these are dangerous and misguided.<p>A commitment to truth has value. A commitment to speak it always and essentially pick fights and cut your own throat is not really a dedication to the truth. It&#x27;s some kind of misguided puritan guilt or something like that.<p>Forgiveness is a gift. Trust is earned. People hold grudges when they know no means to have compassion for another while still protecting themselves. Telling people to run around randomly forgiving others is an unnuanced idea that advocates for encouraging bad behavior and a professional victim position.<p>If you can help them move on, cool. Wonderful. If you can&#x27;t, it&#x27;s bad advice that amounts to saying &quot;The nice thing is to cut your own throat and actively encourage others to keep cutting throats without consequence.&quot;
cryptica超过 3 年前
&gt; 20. Read Foreign Newspapers<p>As someone who has lived in many different countries around the world. I can strongly relate to this point. Media in different countries cover mostly the same information but the angle is different. Watching the media of two different countries which are opposed to each other politically gives you a better general idea of what&#x27;s going on. When you do that, you can easily see the spin&#x2F;deception and you train yourself to spot it.<p>There is always spin in the media. It&#x27;s a bit like cross-examining two people in an argument; of course each individual will try to subtly twist the facts in their own favor. Nation states are no different; if anything, they&#x27;re more consistent.
hutzlibu超过 3 年前
There are interesting ideas, but despite even speaking down on hipsters who do things just because they are not mainstream - the whole concept reminds me still of it.<p>Being anticultural for the sake of it.<p>&quot;Being anti-mimetic is the power to live in freedom&quot;<p>I mean do that, if that is your thing. But rather just do what you really want. Whether your local culture supports it, or not. This I call freedom.<p>Just note of course, going against the mainstream is a lot harder. And there are cultures that are very repressive against even small sidetracking from the norm. And they will try to make your life hell, for bringing chaos into their stable order of things. Because this is how they might perceive you, for not adopting to their standard.
yakshaving_jgt超过 3 年前
&gt; I have always had disdain for the show Shark Tank and all of its many derivatives.<p>Shark Tank is itself a derivative.<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;Dragons%27_Den" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;Dragons%27_Den</a>
95014_refugee超过 3 年前
&gt; &quot;I think that a massive deficiency in religious literacy is causing confusion.&quot;<p>In an article about selective anti-mimeticism, worship at the altar of self-oppressive mimicry. Too serious to be a joke, but the irony...
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TameAntelope超过 3 年前
I absolutely hate the content of this article, mostly because it&#x27;s the exact set of things that you won&#x27;t be able to do if you need to read about them on Hacker News.<p>The people who read this article and attempt to make these changes are the people who will <i>talk</i> about this stuff incessantly, and push it onto every single other person they meet.<p>It&#x27;s legitimately repulsive in its phoniness, because I work hard to be authentic, and if I were to take this article seriously, it&#x27;d be a <i>huge</i> step backwards in authenticity.
max1cc超过 3 年前
Apparently I&#x27;ve reached the maximum number of free articles despite never visiting this site before
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Stevvo超过 3 年前
Misread the title as &#x27;antiemetic&#x27;. Went in expecting strategies for keeping food in your stomach when consuming &#x27;counter-cultural&#x27; substances.
beardedman超过 3 年前
My personal philosophy on this is to not live life by tactics like &quot;anti-mimetic&quot; or &quot;counter cultural&quot;. Like what you like, be present &amp; don&#x27;t treat life like a to-do list. There&#x27;s room to be well read alcoholic with a good heart &amp; a love for 90&#x27;s hip hop.<p>EDIT: And for god&#x27;s sake be kind to someone who doesn&#x27;t share your worldview, even if that worldview is offensive in some way.
frontman1988超过 3 年前
Most important in these times is to not get influenced by ubiquitous advertisement. Be that radio ads, youtube recommendations or highway billboards. One needs to be really careful to not let their subconscious get influenced. I personally make a list of most of the ads I see and don&#x27;t buy stuff from those brands unless there is no alternative.
khazhoux超过 3 年前
Here&#x27;s an anti-mimetic idea:<p><i>Stop chasing advice on how to better yourself. You won&#x27;t find enlightenment in articles like this.</i>
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technotarek超过 3 年前
This was one of my favorite recent reads.<p>The most tangible tech related thing it made me think about is Google News. There are reasons to dislike the service (or the beast behind it), but at the end of the day, it’s a great way to help break your own personal political ethos bubble. Read the headlines of CNN right next to FOX. Consider the angles. On that point, I’d love to find a non-FAANG alternative that does the aggregation as well as Google. Anyone have suggestions?<p>Separately, I will quibble with this:<p>“ I’ve never understood why the debate our education has focused so heavily on the type of school (private, public, parochial, charter, etc.). Shouldn’t we be more concerned about the quality of education?”<p>He’s grossly glossing over the socio-economic subtleties. Those ARE ultimately meant to be debates about quality — and about how quality education can be delivered at mass, fairly and justly.
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azusachino超过 3 年前
My thought about this one was, to obtain your own understanding of this world or everything, then make your own choices. It doesn&#x27;t matter if you are mimetic or not, you are still living your own world, from the beginning to the end, isn&#x27;t it?
webdoodle超过 3 年前
Fantastic list, and was quite happy to see, I&#x27;m already doing most of these, many for most of my adult life. The big ones for me were I threw away my phone a couple years ago, and have essentially stopped using all social media. I also made an effort to go completely analog when hiking, something I do daily, for instance barometric altimeter and contour maps vs gps&#x2F;google maps.<p>There are 2 that I weren&#x27;t on my radar at all though, and will take them to heart and work them into my lifestyle: &quot;Return Anger with Kindness&quot; and &quot;Forgive Someone. Repeat.&quot;. These are really hard in today&#x27;s divisive world, but someone has to take the first step.<p>Thanks for putting together a wonderful list.
bananamerica超过 3 年前
Being autistic mean I don&#x27;t really need to make an effort for that. Silver lining, maybe?
xrd超过 3 年前
Isn&#x27;t hacker news, for all the excitement about mimetics, just another form of Instagram? Aren&#x27;t we all just here for all the things listed in that article?<p>Isn&#x27;t the internet itself, as a giant copy machine, the opposite of the goals of a mimetic life?<p>Maybe this says a lot more about how I approach HN than anyone else. I truly love this community and the ideas put forth by Girard are so interesting. But, it makes me wonder if by pursuing them I&#x27;m just following the herd anyway.<p>I also would love to hear someone write about being anti-mimetic with kids and with another parent. There is an entire industry trying to make you spend money that&#x27;s so mimetic.
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raldi超过 3 年前
<i>&gt; Simple heuristic: ask yourself what price you would pay at the moment you are using a digital product to be doing the real thing. Take running on a treadmill through a digital forest on a 10” screen. If the answer is $10, then do the math: I bet that’s more than what you pay for a daily gym membership. That means that there is more value for you to unlock if you find a way to make that desire a reality.</i><p>I don&#x27;t understand this. What is he proposing you do with the $10? Why would this advice change if your declared value was <i>less</i> than a daily gym membership?
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mawise超过 3 年前
&gt; How many people can honestly and explicitly articulate their purpose, or mission, on social media? Is it to gain followers? Sell books? Build a Substack list? What?<p>This line resonated a lot with me and some of my goals and anti-goals when I started working on Haven[1]. I don&#x27;t want to support any sort of commercial or brand-building goals on Haven and I explicitly send those people to Wordpress on the features page.<p>[1]: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;havenweb.org" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;havenweb.org</a>
chiefalchemist超过 3 年前
&gt; &quot;I read many books not because I think I’ll ‘like’ them but because I think that I won’t...&quot;<p>I won&#x27;t necessarily intentionally look things I don&#x27;t like but I will ask others what they&#x27;re reading, what they suggest, and so on. It helps me escape confirmation bias.<p>The other hack I use is to read books referenced in the book I&#x27;m reading. These are often the book that influenced the book I&#x27;m reading. Getting back to basics, back to the source, is often helpful.
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programmarchy超过 3 年前
To tie this into tech a bit, Peter Thiel is a Girardian. There’s at least one interview out there of him expanding on his views about Girardian mimetics.
im3w1l超过 3 年前
I don&#x27;t think it&#x27;s a good idea to make deviance an end-goal. It should rather follow naturally from your other goals and needs.
pigsforpeace超过 3 年前
If you want to live an anti-mimetic life, basically… be gay. Lol even the article has a pic of Oscar wilde. Gays have the secret and this whole form is way more homophobic than it likes to let on
pjbeam超过 3 年前
I&#x27;m reminded of broken mirror guy from Black Mirror who starts a YouTube (whatever it actually was) channel at the end.
xwolfi超过 3 年前
Bit off topic but there&#x27;s something I never got quite right in american linguo: do they say people do 9am - 5pm workdays ? Cause in France where I worked 3 years and Hong Kong 7, it&#x27;s more 8:30-7. Someone leaving at 5 is almost reason for a riot in a team in both countries, how is it so common in the US?
bluishgreen超过 3 年前
For an anti-mimetic article it could have used something other than a reverse sorted listicle format.
turbojerry超过 3 年前
From his book blurb &quot;According to Girard, humans don’t desire anything independently. Human desire is mimetic―we imitate what other people want.&quot;, he just described NPCs. I&#x27;m not an NPC, and would be surprised if there are any here.
dpweb超过 3 年前
Also the importance of intuition, but going against the crowd can be a lonely road, not for everybody. I&#x27;m reminded of warning not to read too much. &quot;When we read, another person thinks for us, we merely repeat his mental process&quot; - Schopenhauer
rootsudo超过 3 年前
Many of the things here I used daily, and thought I was original for thinking it up. Never thought it&#x27;d be considered &quot;anti-mimetic&quot; or such. How curious - really the article is 1:1 to how I do things, just because I felt like it.
edna314超过 3 年前
I think he didn&#x27;t quite understand the depth of Girard&#x27;s thought. It&#x27;s not like that you can really fight mimetic desire, especially not by following any kind of tactics. Reproducing behavior in a certain way is nothing but mimesis.
retrocryptid超过 3 年前
I&#x27;m not going to dis the OP&#x27;s hypothesis, but he missed much of Girard&#x27;s point. It&#x27;s not that children mimic the desires of their parents or individuals mimic the desire of society writ large, it&#x27;s that desire is embedded in the perceptions of reality transmitted to children and reinforced by society.<p>That being said, I like the article and maybe the author was just side-stepping complications by presenting Girardian desire as being consciously culpable. But that is a complication in and of itself: desire is often unconscious and accessible only to the hidden self of the subconscious.<p>That the desire the author describes may be a meta- (or pata-) desire is worth noting when reading the text.<p>Or at least that&#x27;s my 2 bit commentary.
podgaj超过 3 年前
Yawn...<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;news.ycombinator.com&#x2F;item?id=29592786" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;news.ycombinator.com&#x2F;item?id=29592786</a>
Danborg超过 3 年前
This article is full of dumb advice that will cause nothing but grief if you follow it. This is an anti-mimetic comment. ;-)
mycall超过 3 年前
Wow, this resonated so much with me that I could have wrote this. Amazing to know I&#x27;m not alone. Cheers!
mym1990超过 3 年前
I am surprised the word &#x27;listen&#x27; was used only once in the entire article. There is so much to be gained by simply perking up those little ears of ours, and I would certainly say it is becoming anti-mimetic.<p>Also, being flexible. You don&#x27;t have to avoid using GPS all the time. But sometimes I find a fun challenge in seeing if my brain can figure out A to B on its own, etc...
decebalus1超过 3 年前
&gt; The Marriage of Anti-Mimetic and Anti-Fragility<p>And that was when I realized the whole article was bullshit.
salvioqt超过 3 年前
Very solid arguments in the liquid post-truth media trending. Thanks @lukeburgis.
ismail超过 3 年前
surreal to read this. I had never heard of memetic theory.<p>A year ago , I was struggling to describe an experience and needed a word to describe it while journaling.<p>I called it “Wantingness” at the time! Going to go back and review my journal entries.
smk_超过 3 年前
Ironically reading and engaging in commentary on the article is a girardian desire
saargrin超过 3 年前
this all sounds great in principle but the fact is most of whats advised is only accessible to the exceptionally privileged<p>&quot;avoid typical crowded hours and go to restaurants and museums at 1400 on a workday&quot;<p>sure id like to but...
einarvollset超过 3 年前
Ben. Can you unsubscribe me from your email list? I used to be a subscriber, but after you decided to publish on Twitter some PMs that were meant as peace offerings, I’d like to not get your self serving crap in my inbox. I hit unsubscribe, but that seems to not work.
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prog_1超过 3 年前
moderation is the key<p>combine and synthesize the best of antifragility, postmodernism, dao te ching, science and what have you<p>this article made step #2 of thesis, antithesis, synthesis.
mot3超过 3 年前
Every human being needs to read this article.
throwaway984393超过 3 年前
They used the word &quot;mimetic&quot; 77 times
tonymet超过 3 年前
Living well isn&#x27;t a checklist.
SyzygistSix超过 3 年前
Some interesting ideas here.<p>I still found it funny that he talks about avoiding frictionless consumption yet links book titles to the Amazon store.
mrVentures超过 3 年前
They focus so much on disobeying the crowd that they still let it dictate their decisions.
anthk超过 3 年前
&gt;Homo religious<p>Quit that bullshit.
zerobits超过 3 年前
This is one of the best articles I’ve read in awhile - thank you!
pkdpic超过 3 年前
Just agreeing with most comments here, love this!
kazinator超过 3 年前
&gt; <i>Speak the truth in accord with your conscience no matter what the cost.</i><p>My conscience keeps saying that vaccines are a depopulation scheme. Now what?<p>I say, don&#x27;t be just another member of a set of people who follow bullshit articles on how to be anti-mimetic.
stareblinkstare超过 3 年前
This is yet another social signal. You&#x27;ve created a group D by harping about Groups A, B and C.
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krnsll超过 3 年前
Ah yes, learning (imitating?) how not to imitate from a listicle that itself cites advice from a compendium of books and sources.<p>Sorry, couldn&#x27;t help myself.
jancsika超过 3 年前
Suppose I wanted to use the namespace clash here with &quot;anti-meme&quot; posts on reddit&#x2F;etc. in order to boost the concept of &quot;anti-meme&quot; posts, with the goal to eventually take over the name in the popular consciousness. E.g., the way that Uber ate &quot;ride sharing,&quot; Bitcoin&#x2F;blockchain is attempting to eat &quot;crypto,&quot; or how current Ripple literally paid to take over the name from the old Ripple.<p>How much money would that cost me?<p>I guess the easiest starting place is-- how much would current Ripple have paid the original Ripple guy to buy the name?
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