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Ask HN: Are you happy with your current job?

30 点作者 xook超过 3 年前
I know some jobs feel like a grind on some days, but for those who have a legitimate, heaving disinterest every work day, how do you get to the end? What pushes you to the next day?

23 条评论

mangamadaiyan超过 3 年前
The job itself is not too bad. I&#x27;ve become inured to crappy work over the years.<p>What kills me is the relentless manner in which work attempts to make inroads into my personal time. I hate late-night meetings, especially those that start beyond 11 pm. I hate the fact that most of my co-workers are online and working well past bedtime, and on most weekends. I hate that most think nothing of installing the office messenger app on their personal phones to &quot;be more available&quot;. The (pre WFH) office commute, while it was a pain, was an effective moat between work and home. WFH has since brought down that moat.<p>The other thing that gets my goat is the &quot;peg yourself at 100% CPU all the time&quot; culture that Agile has fostered. Before Agile took over my world, I found that my best ideas came during downtime, when I was able to explore the codebase and play with it. There&#x27;s no downtime at work anymore.<p>What keeps me going is the fact that I need the money.
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deanmoriarty超过 3 年前
I’m not, there is just too much pressure to deliver and I don’t know how to pace myself. For instance, during these Christmas holidays I worked full time nearly every day. Completely self imposed, none of my coworkers were online, I did it to try to get ahead of the utterly impossible deliverables that were given to me as the most senior person in my team. It was truly a miserable time.<p>It doesn’t help that I am perverse enough to always strive for the most senior position I can get in, when I change a company, which always turns out to be incredibly difficult and a destroyer of self confidence.<p>I am currently at a FAANG at a senior level and I am not kidding when I say I do not know what the hell I am doing, technically speaking. I try to counter balance this by working like a dog, but it is not sustainable. I spent a lot of time thinking about this and I think people talk about impostor syndrome but I am just a true impostor. Compared to some of my peers I am better at sweet talking and so I end up getting opportunities I am not qualified for (“tricking” management is somewhat a very easy game for me), and then suffer.<p>I need some sort of catalyst in my life to change all this. I rationally know this is destroying me, but my brain just keeps telling me: “stop complaining you fool, you are incredibly privileged and lucky and are making the money of your life, people would kill to be in your shoes. Just work harder and shut up before you are truly caught in your incompetence and the well dries up”.<p>I’m thinking 2022 might be a good time to talk to a therapist, things have been getting consistently worse yoy as I grew more senior professionally.
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pelagicAustral超过 3 年前
I think I&#x27;m happy enough but at the same time I feel scared shitless most days... Just recently I took a bump to a more senior position and I just keep having these visions of absolute failure... I just always have such a hard time taking it easy and understanding that even if this doesn&#x27;t work for me its not going to be the end of the world.
temikus超过 3 年前
I used to be in a situation like that. Couldn’t change positions due to a visa requirement and management took advantage of that.<p>What helped me:<p>- Have a light at the end of the tunnel, i.e. issuance of my permanent residency which would put an end to the suffering.<p>- Have a VERY rigid separation between home and work. 2 laptops, 2 phones. As soon as 6 o’clock hits work phone gets turned off and put on a shelf.<p>- Personal side projects that kept me interested in IT and helped me uphill. This bit is important to make sure you don’t start associating your vocation with mental pain and understand that the industry is still fun, your job just sucks.<p>- Regular exercise.<p>- Taking regular breaks during workday, have lunch outside with a friend, etc.<p>- Participate in meetups and other community events, volunteer your time to help others (gives meaning).<p>It’s a tough situation, so good luck. If you can leave though - I would recommend it. Life is too short to work in an environment you hate.
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bmlzootown超过 3 年前
Am I happy? No. Working retail before the pandemic wasn&#x27;t the best, but it was doable. Now? I&#x27;m not sure how much longer I can do this. Between rude customers and (semi-)incompetent coworkers, I&#x27;m closer than I&#x27;ve ever been to just leaving my keys on the counter and walking out.<p>I can give the most basic instructions, describe exactly how to do something, even go so far as to show how to do it, and yet I still have key individuals who will stare at me blankly and then ask me to repeat myself multiple times... And then when I come back to check up on them, they&#x27;ve messed everything up, totally disregarding everything I&#x27;ve said&#x2F;showed them.<p>My boss expects me to hand-hold, but this is not doable. I can&#x27;t hover over people 24&#x2F;7 when, even with no regard as for how they do things, they still can&#x27;t manage to get things done in a timely manner. They&#x27;ve all been trained time and time again, so it&#x27;s not like they haven&#x27;t been shown how to do things and what the expectations are. Most of the freight has been run by management for months now because of this, and I&#x27;m almost at wits end. But with the current state of things, finding competent workers is nearly impossible, and keeping them is even more difficult when they see the absurdities around them.<p>So far I&#x27;ve managed to cope by living moment to moment. When I work on something, I do my best to tune everything else out. I try to get in the &#x27;flow&#x27;, losing myself while I work mindlessly. Each day is still getting harder, however.
ivraatiems超过 3 年前
This job is not my ultimate destination but it&#x27;s a pleasant place to be and I am happy enough. I changed jobs in March, and was just promoted at my new company. My total compensation has almost doubled, plus a lot of equity I didn&#x27;t have before, plus better benefits, so my livelihood situation has improved dramatically and it wasn&#x27;t too bad to start with. My employer respects my time and schedule and sets reasonable expectations, for which I am grateful.<p>I&#x27;m also getting the opportunity to do more technical leadership sort of tasks - mentoring, hiring, planning, designing architecture, etc. - but I am not a manager or directly responsible for anyone. It is a lot of new responsibility, and a challenge, but I like it.<p>The biggest downside of my current position is the sheer amount of cruft I have to deal with - the extra time everything takes because of how big&#x2F;complex all the systems are, the slowness of local development, etc. - and the fact that I&#x27;m more extroverted than many of my colleagues, so the &quot;work social life&quot; suffers. (We are a full remote org, but I don&#x27;t think it&#x27;s about that as much as about working with people who would prefer to do their own thing asynchronously whenever possible.)<p>I don&#x27;t know whether these will be fatal issues in the long run, but I also don&#x27;t really care. I don&#x27;t intend to spend more than another five to ten years in technology before finding something else to do with my life, preferably something creative, and something that will give me more time to have and raise kids. My significant other is also in a lucrative career path, so I feel this is an achievable goal. Hopefully, I will be happy in my current position until then.
theduemmer超过 3 年前
Oftentimes I resent going to work when I&#x27;m stuck in the office. I find that I have trouble focusing for eight hours, even when working on more mentally stimulating things. I am lucky to also have laid back and friendly relationships with many of my coworkers, and we share friendly banter throughout the day. This helps break up the monotony a lot.<p>What really keeps me interested in this job is the field work. Periodically I&#x27;ll need to travel to the customer&#x27;s facility, and that work is much more hands on. I&#x27;ll often be &quot;debugging&quot; with a multimeter and screwdriver, on my knees or back in an electrical panel, or making code fixes that I can see affecting moving machine parts right in front of me.<p>It&#x27;s one thing to work on something like traditional software which only directly changes stuff on a computer screen, but I get I get awfully bored and disinterested without some &quot;real&quot;, physical results of my work. From what I&#x27;ve learned speaking to others and reading here, I&#x27;m not alone. To be honest I don&#x27;t think I would last for very long at any job without being able to work with my hands.
GeneralPie超过 3 年前
No. It&#x27;s a new position and as usual I found its not like promised. The code base is terrible, the DevOps practices are poor, the general discussion and inclusion across the team is none existent (I know remote is hard but there is almost no none-work chat on Slack). I want to improve practices there but find it a real grind to convince one particularly stubborn engineer (tho they do come round eventually after backing up my points). But I don&#x27;t feel like there&#x27;s anyone there that is really driving good practices, and I&#x27;m supposed to be learning there not leading this effort. On another note my team lead is surly and doesn&#x27;t really seem to care about code. The principle Dev spends more time putting out fires than anything else. Finally, the product is far more boring than it sounded during the interview.
the_only_law超过 3 年前
Eh, not really, but it’s unlikely I could find a job where I would be. It really was a mistake to become a professional programmer.
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move-on-by超过 3 年前
Yes, but I’ve only been here for about 2 months. I absolutely hated my previous position. By the time I finally accepted it wasn’t going to get better, I was so depressed and downtrodden that it was extremely difficult to add interviews and studying to my daily workload.<p>I was pretty quick to accept my current position and I have since recovered from the depression. I don’t see myself staying here more then a couple years. Hopefully inflation will have leveled out by then and I’ll have the energy to put into getting a ‘dream job’. In the mean time I’m enjoying life and learning new things for the joy of it.
throwaway889900超过 3 年前
Nah. Coworker gave his two week notice today after being out for 2.5 months (and only actually being in the office for like 3 weeks after being hired) and my boss is a lunatic with no management or communication skills. I&#x27;ve been told a &quot;moral lesson&quot; of going ahead of schedule being a bad thing too many times to count.<p>Definitely gonna be finding a new job soon. But for now, it pays the bills and I have other stuff to keep my mind off it when I&#x27;m not here.
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giantg2超过 3 年前
Hell no. I absolutely hate my job.
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leros超过 3 年前
My feeling about work changes every few years.<p>I started out as a developer. I learned how to build web stuff, I built massive global systems, I designed and built a successful product, then I got bored.<p>I then became a team lead, then led multiple teams, then defining company wide engineering processes, then I got bored.<p>I then became a product manager. I grew a product to success, moved into growth marketing, and then got bored again.<p>I then led an innovation group, a cross functional team of developers, designers, marketers, customer service, etc. We did some cool stuff, then I got bored again.<p>I became convinced I could no longer work a corporate job. I started a few solo tech businesses with some success. I developed the MVPs, talked to customers, got some initial growth, and then I got bored.<p>I haven&#x27;t worked at all in about a year. I&#x27;ve been focusing on my personal well being. I&#x27;ve been investing in hobbies and other personal things. It was a nice change of pace. I&#x27;m starting to get bored again.<p>Now I&#x27;m thinking about going back to corporate life, getting a product manager or engineering leadership job, and just half assing it like everyone else, so I have energy to also devote seriously to myself.<p>Who knows how that will go.
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flitzofolov超过 3 年前
Yes, very! I look forward to coming to work every day. My team is supportive and kind, I am well compensated, and I am continuously learning and growing as a software engineer.<p>I feel very fortunate, after having worked for many years in less satisfactory positions. I am motivated by a connection with my colleagues, and our shared commitment to the success of our company. I am grateful that I can be part of something I believe in and provide for my family.<p>It helps that our company is transparent, equitable, and trying to be a force for good in the world while also running an effective business. We are geared toward long term sustainability much more than short term benefits, and it seems to be paying off.<p>I&#x27;ve been at my current job for over a year and a half, and it hasn&#x27;t felt like a grind at all. Any time I am not in the mood to work, or have familial obligations, or I&#x27;m tired, or not feeling well, it is strongly encouraged that I take a break. Everyone brings their best and whole selves to work, and I see myself working there for years to come.
itisit超过 3 年前
I’m in it for the money. After 20 some years in tech, I think I’ve got 4 years left in me of dealing with the pedantry required when working for someone else, particularly a corporation. Call it compartmentalization, apathy, professionalism, whatever, I don’t evaluate my 9-5 based on my happiness.
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casralad超过 3 年前
Yes. Fully remote, good separation of work and life, the technical problems are interesting enough (for me), and management is mostly sane. I&#x27;m a software developer in the US.
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adoga超过 3 年前
No, I&#x27;ll be putting in my notice for a new job tomorrow after closing on a house today.<p>This past summer they brought in some &quot;Agile&quot; consultants which ramped up the process and micromanagement to 10.<p>So far we&#x27;ve tried to bring on two people these past 3 months, both quitting 2 months after joining.<p>I&#x27;ve tried to be candid with my boss, but things don&#x27;t seem to changing so on to [perceived] greener pastures (it&#x27;s also a 40% pay bump but money was not why I started looking).
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taubek超过 3 年前
I worked at one place for more than 10 years. Then I switched to another job. I stayed there for three years. I&#x27;m now at a new place. I&#x27;m happy with current job. I like the fact every day there is something new for me to learn. I&#x27;ve never stopped learning. What keeps me going on? The fact that I see the meaning in tasks that I work, fact that I&#x27;m helping my team mates, that job gives me food on the table and roof over my head...
formerlurker超过 3 年前
Not really. I have been worried because performance reviews are around the corner and I don’t know where I stand. Previously I had a more involved manager and I did well while working under him (I got a raise and promotion). But as the company grew I was assigned to another person who at first seemed to align better to my career goals. My new manager is nice but he is new at it and I am realizing the work I do may not be what I want to do long term.
codingdave超过 3 年前
No, but I get by knowing that I have 105 working days left until my golden handcuffs get cashed in and I get to be done and take the summer off.<p>I don&#x27;t mind if a job is a grind, but if you are actively unhappy, without something specific like that to look forward to, it is time to be seeking out change in your work. Either by talking to your leaders about fixing your current job, or finding a new one.
jxidjhdhdhdhfhf超过 3 年前
I was never really a fan of working in general. Like why would I <i>want</i> to have to be at a certain place every day (even if that place is my home office) and have to work on my employers problems? And even if I enjoy programming to some extent, 8 hours a day for 48-50 weeks a year is just way too much. That said, I&#x27;m thankful my job pays decently and that allows me to do the things I enjoy.
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librarianscott超过 3 年前
For me, I&#x27;m not looking for happiness at work. I look for meaningfulness. Contribution. Participation in society. Challenges. I&#x27;m not so sure I&#x27;m 100% into logotherapy, or if it is just the Protestant work ethic, but I can&#x27;t spend all day chit-chatting like some of the other workers because that is not what my life is about.
carnitas超过 3 年前
No