Joel completely nailed it - if you can get on stage at a big conference, do it.<p>Another question is: Should you go to a conference like TCDisrupt but present at Startup alley?<p>We (FeeFighters) did that. We aren't launching anything sexy that TC would like (We are in payments and even if you are making money and have saved businesses (including Fog Creek) $75million it isn't sexy unless Jack Dorsey is running the show) so we didn't bother applying to Disrupt.<p>We're launching next week at Finovate instead. So we decided to present at Startup Alley. It isn't cheap. We had to fly out there, it costs $2k for a table, etc. For us, its good to get out to SF every so often to visit with friends, investors, partners, etc anyway. Early on, not that many folks came by our booth (we were in the 500 startups alley, not the main one, so we were a bit away from the crowd).<p>Ultimately though, for us the exposure was worth it. We had several good meetings and customers came out of it - often it was often from folks we met at an afterparty who stopped by our table the next day. We also did a few guerilla things that helped us gain even more exposure: <a href="http://feefighters.com/blog/3-ways-feefighters-disrupted-tcdisrupt/" rel="nofollow">http://feefighters.com/blog/3-ways-feefighters-disrupted-tcd...</a> Who else can say that top VC's tweeted about them from the bathroom? We then followed up with some of the VC's who said they love our scrappiness and have had several email conversations (we aren't actively raising money, but never hurts to meet w/ VC's).<p>There are ways you can maximize your opportunities and I think far too few people did those things. Generally though, if you can afford it, I think it is worth going even in the alley - but you have to make the most of your opportunities... We saw folks sitting behind their table, and people who just weren't very friendly/outgoing. That doesn't work at conferences. Send your most extroverted people out there. You need to be able to talk and relate to people instantly.