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Lesson: Stop saying “Hi” and waiting for a response

54 点作者 vishnuharidas大约 3 年前

17 条评论

suprjami大约 3 年前
Otherwise known as a &quot;naked ping&quot; and discussed in many places before:<p>- <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;blogs.gnome.org&#x2F;markmc&#x2F;2014&#x2F;02&#x2F;20&#x2F;naked-pings&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;blogs.gnome.org&#x2F;markmc&#x2F;2014&#x2F;02&#x2F;20&#x2F;naked-pings&#x2F;</a> - <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;fedoraproject.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;No_naked_pings" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;fedoraproject.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;No_naked_pings</a> - <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;blog.doismellburning.co.uk&#x2F;nobody-likes-naked-pings&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;blog.doismellburning.co.uk&#x2F;nobody-likes-naked-pings&#x2F;</a> - <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.die-welt.net&#x2F;2020&#x2F;06&#x2F;naked-pings-2020&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.die-welt.net&#x2F;2020&#x2F;06&#x2F;naked-pings-2020&#x2F;</a>
duxup大约 3 年前
At a previous employer I stopped responding to “Hi”.<p>It was interpreted by the “hi” folks as me not ever being at work.<p>Eventually (as I anticipated) someone complained that I missed an important priority issue about X.<p>I had to explain how “hi” &#x2F;= important issue about X and that I revive so many “hi” messages that I couldn’t assume they’re all important.<p>It was pretty tiresome explaining it, but it worked, I stopped getting “hi” and got “hi, important issue X”.
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colanderman大约 3 年前
I&#x27;ve wondered if the subconscious reason for sending &quot;hi&quot; &#x2F; disliking receiving &quot;hi&quot; is that -- in the same way as a read receipt -- it denies the recipient the chance to read the message and tactfully choose to ignore it for some time.<p>E.g. no-one likes being saddled with urgent work; therefore pretending you haven&#x27;t yet seen a request for such until you feel like dealing with it may be a common response; therefore asking &quot;hi&quot; is an attempt to establish real-time communication and thus force an immediate response to a potentially unpalatable request.
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mp3k大约 3 年前
<a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;nohello.net&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;nohello.net&#x2F;</a>
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Taylor_OD大约 3 年前
It&#x27;s funny because unless someone follows up I will very likely never respond to a message that just says, &quot;Hi&quot;<p>I tend to just ask questions immediately. I&#x27;ve heard some people like a little more pretext so I say, &quot;Hey Hey. Insert question or reason I messaged&quot; now.<p>I wonder where we pick up these defaults.
danaris大约 3 年前
In places where I commonly have people asking me tech questions, I fairly often have to repeat Rule 1 of Asking Danaris Questions:<p>Ask The Damn Question.<p>I <i>usually</i> only have to say it once to a given person, and repeating it in public chats when people ping me there without an actual question tends to reduce the incidence of &quot;naked pings&quot; generally for a while.<p>For a while, I tried having <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;nohello.com&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;nohello.com&#x2F;</a> in my Discord status, but that&#x27;s not the most visible indicator, so I haven&#x27;t been doing it lately.
bravetraveler大约 3 年前
Also stop tagging me in a direct message, it doesn&#x27;t send an extra notification...<p>It just muddies up search when I [later] want to see where I&#x27;ve been mentioned in channels
jcrash大约 3 年前
Thanks Vishnu for repackaging reddit threads for us<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.reddit.com&#x2F;r&#x2F;LifeProTips&#x2F;comments&#x2F;t48pfa&#x2F;lpt_dont_hi_your_coworkers_on_slack_or_teams_in&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.reddit.com&#x2F;r&#x2F;LifeProTips&#x2F;comments&#x2F;t48pfa&#x2F;lpt_don...</a>
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rad_gruchalski大约 3 年前
My tactic to reply simply “hi” back.
bonyt大约 3 年前
As I&#x27;ve heard it from IRC, &quot;Don&#x27;t ask to ask, just ask.&quot; - <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;dontasktoask.com&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;dontasktoask.com&#x2F;</a>
lowmagnet大约 3 年前
our internal policy is to say hi because a lot of us might be screen sharing to clients and most people are bad about setting the flag to not show message text in the notification area.
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igetspam大约 3 年前
I&#x27;ve had a rule about this since SMS caught on. Any time someone send a &quot;call me&quot; type message, my only response is &quot;about what?&quot; I try to enforce the same concept with meetings and slack and any other place where it makes sense. Naked pings feel like a trap and while they rarely are, it has happened before and by forcing context before agreeing to a discussion, I&#x27;ve avoided being caught off guard.
kobalsky大约 3 年前
this guy is trying to go straight from http&#x2F;1.1 to http&#x2F;3 in real life.
mccorrinall大约 3 年前
<a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.catb.org&#x2F;~esr&#x2F;faqs&#x2F;smart-questions.html#before" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.catb.org&#x2F;~esr&#x2F;faqs&#x2F;smart-questions.html#before</a>
data_spy大约 3 年前
This is a huge pet peeve of mine.
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eddof13大约 3 年前
this is a cultural thing as well- I moved to Mexico and it&#x27;s huge here, and I have to tell people not to do it
rsashwin大约 3 年前
nohello.com