As I read this, and the comments, I'm struck by how the legacy of slavery has left what feels like incurable trauma on everyone involved. It feels like generational trauma that will take generations to resolve. White and black, everyone has suffered immensely. There is more focus on the suffering of the slaves, as it should be, and white people involved also suffered emotionally and with other terrible consequences. It's a pity this discussion feels like people finding a side and trying to out-trauma the other side, instead of just recognizing how awful this was for everyone. And what that means for the future.