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The hero's journey of getting laid off

110 点作者 georgex7将近 3 年前

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duxup将近 3 年前
I got laid off from a company after nearly 20 years of work there. I was very lucky to get a big company layoff type package of ~ 9 months of pay. I decided to take it as opportunity to do new things.<p>It was still a worrying experience, had kids, family to take care of, but I chose to take that money and time and enroll in a coding boot camp and go in a new direction in life after age 40. I figured I wasn&#x27;t going to see a lump sum of 9 months pay and time to do something with it ever again so I was going to take advantage of it.<p>Years later now I&#x27;m very happy with the decision. Starting over was stressful, but I&#x27;m much happier with what I do now... and I don&#x27;t think I would have done it if I hadn&#x27;t been laid off.<p>It was still traumatic, but I don&#x27;t think I would be on this side of things had it been easier...
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tra3将近 3 年前
I&#x27;m thankful that the school that I attended forced us to take electives outside of Computer Science and Engineering. I took some Psychology classes. The list of stressful events was very surprising to me. The author alludes to it in the post. I recall that typically &quot;happy&quot; events are stressful, too.<p>Here&#x27;s the list [0]:<p>Death of a spouse (or child*): 100<p>Divorce: 73<p>Marital separation: 65<p>Imprisonment: 63<p>Death of a close family member: 63<p>Personal injury or illness: 53<p>Marriage: 50<p>Dismissal from work: 47<p>Marital reconciliation: 45<p>Retirement: 45<p>I recently went through a layoff, like probably quite a few in our industry lately, so it rings very true to me.<p>[0]: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;paindoctor.com&#x2F;top-10-stressful-life-events-holmes-rahe-stress-scale&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;paindoctor.com&#x2F;top-10-stressful-life-events-holmes-r...</a>
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mysterydip将近 3 年前
Getting laid off was the &quot;cold water shock&quot; I needed to rewrite what had been drilled into me since grade school: if you work hard and do your job, you&#x27;ll always have one and your hard work will eventually result in promotions.<p>I took that experience and changed what kind of jobs I looked for, and found one I&#x27;m much happier with.
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UncleOxidant将近 3 年前
<i>Over the coming months, tens (if not hundreds) of thousands will be laid off. This event will be the call to adventure for those that were disillusioned but hadn’t considered changing their professions.</i><p>(Or even just changing their job&#x2F;company within the same profession.)<p>The layoffs in tech have started. It won&#x27;t be as bad as the 2001-2004 dot com debacle. Possibly not as bad as the 2008-2012 period was (which wasn&#x27;t as bad for tech vs the previous downturn, but was just bad overall). If you&#x27;ve prepared then this will be the pause that refreshes. The break you&#x27;ve been needing for a few years now. A time to regroup, learn new things, rethink your priorities. Recessions need not be fearsome things if you&#x27;ve got a good emergency fund and you can live frugally for a while. I used the &#x27;01-&#x27;04 downturn to go back to school and get a Masters degree. I view that time positively.
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ChrisMarshallNY将近 3 年前
I really enjoyed that!<p>I was laid off my last job. It was totally expected (I saw it coming, years ahead), and the &quot;forcing function&quot; for me, was encountering the Brick Wall of Silicon Valley Ageism.<p>It forced me to accept that I was in early retirement; whether or not I liked it.<p>Turns out, it was the best thing that could have happened to me.<p><i>META: He may want to reconsider his choice of thumbnails. I think it&#x27;s a great one, but Disney has a rather fearsome reputation for going after even the smallest misuses of its IP.</i>
nickd2001将近 3 年前
A former employer very kindly laid me off one May (after April financial results had revealed various cock-ups, and sales hadn&#x27;t been as predicted etc). This was in the UK, and I got the legal minimum payout, having been there a few years. That was tax free of course, and enough to buy a few things like new big Ikea wardrobe, couple new double-glazed windows, extra week on a static caravan holiday. Deliberately didn&#x27;t apply for jobs straightaway, to avoid people trying to get me to start too soon ;) Eventually got the first job I applied for that I really wanted, with a few other interview offers. Managed to swing it so it didn&#x27;t start until September. So had the whole summer off, which was particularly good as our daughter, who&#x27;s very young for her year, was about to start full-time school that September. So lots of nice time with her before that. Sorted out a huge mess of cr*p in the garage, and various other jobs neglected due to having small children and full time work. To this day I think that employer feels a bit bad about this, but I feel grateful. ;) Having met up with ex colleagues, its a common story, a few of us got kicked out over the years, and generally ended up having a whale of a time, learning new skills, and getting a pay-rise out of it too. ;). When else do you get paid not to go to work? ;). Hasten to add, I&#x27;m actually a hard worker, and take pride in my work. But not gonna turn down opportunity of a nice long holiday and extra cash. Had this happened in a bad job market, would have been a different story of course. Same thing happened to a friend in his 50s. He initially feared his age would be a problem. But his problem turned out to be, having to reply to so many calls from recruiters.
davidw将近 3 年前
You don&#x27;t have to abide by everything the guy says, but I like a lot of the ideas over at <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.mrmoneymustache.com&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.mrmoneymustache.com&#x2F;</a> in terms of living frugally.<p>The ultimate form of freedom is being able to decide what you want to do with your time. One way of accomplishing that is making a ridiculous amount of money via a successful exit. Another way is to structure your life so that you&#x27;re ok with less. Sure, I think most would prefer the &#x27;have lots of money&#x27; option, but 1) even there it&#x27;s easy to get sucked into spending more, as this article mentions, and 2) we have a lot more control over living frugally while earning well (most software engineers earn pretty good money) than we do over a wildly successful exit from a startup.
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OrangeMonkey将近 3 年前
I&#x27;m sorry, but I can&#x27;t disagree more strongly.<p>Getting laid off is a traumatic event. It is not a hero&#x27;s journey except in so far as a hero&#x27;s journey is exciting because it talks about a path through dangerous times where a person can fail.<p>I, and likely many of us, have a family. We are blessed to work in technology where we earn more than we make and can put up savings for rainy days.<p>The average person with a family who gets laid off will not sense adventure - they will have despair. Utter despair and worthlessness and the hope they can get things back together before their family suffers.<p>Heck even us tech workers can feel that way. The most depressed time of my entire life was after I had been laid off. It was bad enough that I was having negative thoughts almost every day nonstop. It was traumatic enough that it fundamentally changed my approach to savings, life, and risk (likely for the worst).<p>I am better now, have a family, a career I enjoy, but I now know how easy it is for the veneer to be ripped away. Its not a hero&#x27;s journey - its a nightmare.
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kache_将近 3 年前
Market still seems hot for senior&#x2F;staff devs. Getting laid off is a free lunch + a paid vacation to interview for a better job. Thank god I listened to my mom and learned to code.
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jesse__将近 3 年前
&gt; A monk is more financially independent than a hedge fund manager with a Lamborghini addiction<p>This just tickles me. Great analogy.
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willcipriano将近 3 年前
Any tips for being the guy who gets laid off? I&#x27;d like to have an excuse to take a few months break but when layoffs happen they never pick me.
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throwkeepno将近 3 年前
Honestly I&#x27;ve been fired 6 times. And I&#x27;m thankful for each one for the same reason as the author. Grateful even.<p>Life is huge - humongous even and you owe it to yourself to explore.<p>The world is a very large place. You can succeed in very different ways as long as your provide value. In a lot of situations and places that bar of value is lower than what you are accustomed to.<p>I&#x27;ve known Billionaire founders who know little about business or code, software engineers who made more money selling shoes online.<p>W.r.t decisions:<p>People seem to need these &quot;Walls&quot; that they need to run into to be forced to make a decision about their lives - layoffs, firings, family care issues, health issues etc.<p>Don&#x27;t fight it- go with the flow. Use those to do what you really want to do or at least to give it a brief try.<p>A low cost of living is the only thing that really gives you a robust form of freedom.
antiverse将近 3 年前
@dang need the link fixed to this: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;backtohumanity.substack.com&#x2F;p&#x2F;getting-laid-off" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;backtohumanity.substack.com&#x2F;p&#x2F;getting-laid-off</a>
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paulcole将近 3 年前
&gt; Why are the smartest people in the world working on delivery food?<p>They probably aren&#x27;t. Some of them are really smart. Some of them are pretty dumb. Some are determined and hardworking. Some are lazy. Most are more or less somewhere in the middle.<p>I don&#x27;t know why anyone would assume the smartest people in the world are working on delivery food (I understand the subtext of the-smartest-people-are-choosing-to-work-on-apps-ad-tech-etc but I just don&#x27;t buy it)?
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cardanome将近 3 年前
Never do anything your love for money. If you are intrinsically motivated to do something bringing external factors like money into it might ruin you motivation and love for the thing you had. High chance of burn out.<p>Find work that has great synergy with your hobbies&#x2F;interest but is not exactly the same. Either requiring similar skill or being the the same or related field. That way they will fuel each other.<p>And most importantly, don&#x27;t try to find meaning in your work (except maybe if you work in non-market driven employments like education&#x2F;health care but sill beware). That is something a simple farmer that directly interacts with his produce might have experienced but modern capitalism it way too alienating for that to work. Most of the time you wont be even able to tell if you individual output makes any difference and if so for better for worse.<p>Find meaning outside work.
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