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Ask HN: How to Find a Hobby?

5 点作者 py4将近 3 年前
The only things I enjoy are work, socialize and traveling. After I finish work, I start to experience hell. The boringness, the absurdity of life. It&#x27;s literally hell. Maybe it&#x27;s a sign of ADHD that I cannot finish work and then just stare into the walls for an hour. I couldn&#x27;t even run on treadmill for more than 5 mins as I got super bored.<p>Anyway, how am I supposed to find hobbies to do after work? it feels like everything is boring to me if it&#x27;s does not contain some dosage of computer science or socialization or traveling.<p>P.S: Prefer not to work on self-defined coding projects, prefer to get away from computer after work.

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jvalencia将近 3 年前
I recently got into DnD. There&#x27;s potentially groups in your area. You can find them at local game shops. In addition, there&#x27;s terrain crafting, world-building, map-making, etc thrown in. You can see a fine example @ <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;c&#x2F;RPArchiveOfficial" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;c&#x2F;RPArchiveOfficial</a>
themodelplumber将近 3 年前
A specialty area for me, maybe this helps.<p>A few differentiations to work on first:<p>- Rest time vs. hobby time: This is a big one to learn to differentiate. You can indulge in your interests during both, but only the latter is typically going to let you really dig into things at a hobby-progress level. If you don&#x27;t understand this you can drive yourself crazy and convince yourself that you can&#x27;t focus, you&#x27;re bored and so on, when in fact maybe it&#x27;s laying-down-phone-scrolling time or loud-music time or mumble-karaoke time while you relax in the hammock.<p>- Ephemeral interest-focus vs. long-term interest focus: Your focus will come with different scopes attached. If you are experiencing the former, never fight it, that&#x27;s usually a mistake. Especially if you focused on work a lot today. Call it ADHD if you want, but ride the waves, do what sounds interesting _not_ for your whole life, but for the next minute or two. Focus on switching as many times as your body&#x2F;mind need until you start to settle into something. It&#x27;s normal for focus to drift while a new context is found.<p>- Emotional involvement vs. routine-sustaining: Hobbies are passion-focused, and therefore can benefit from emotional judgment tools. Let yourself choose options based on feelings&#x2F;emotions. Always rank them in a list in liked-most order, as this is a simple form of emotional expression. Over time you should end up with a master list which will be super useful. Emotions change and need attention. Don&#x27;t force a routine to form unless you know for sure why that&#x27;s necessary.<p>- Experimental you vs. fixed-concept you: Ask yourself &quot;what would make this moment better?&quot; Music, interactivity, whatever.<p>For example last week I needed to put in some time on the exercise bike but it felt so boring. So I made a quick handlebar mount for my scanner radio, installed super tux kart on my phone and watched a live PIP metal concert while I raced using the gyro controls. I was laughing after a while because my feet pedaled way faster when I was behind in the race. Listening to various ambulance, fire, police, ham radio, and air attack calls at the same time, there was something different to move the attention to the whole time.<p>- Showing up vs. developing skills: It&#x27;s cool to find yourself doing something fun, and that naturally happens sometimes. But techies also usually benefit from hobbies that allow skill development over time. As you practice new hobbies, ask yourself what different levels of skill look like. Try to develop a mental picture of where you can take this in the medium term (risky to mess with the long term with this stuff, be careful), and what sounds interesting.<p>gl
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randomopining将近 3 年前
I find computer science boring actually, it&#x27;s just a skill that&#x27;s in demand and I can do decently well.<p>Find some fire in other things and start doing them. Get immersed into guitar, how you have to adapt technique to hit certain riffs etc. Get into languages, how each country has their own slang even within the same language, etc.
mikewarot将近 3 年前
I found that turning metal into a finished item and a pile of chips was VERY therapeutic for me. Folks at your local maker space have tools to let you do this, and lots of other things. A culture of helping each other build things, and learn how to do so, is good for the soul.
gcheong将近 3 年前
Try to find a hobby that has something of a social aspect via an organization of people that do the thing. For me this is astronomy, model rocketry, archery, and, in the past, whale boat rowing.
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ppjim将近 3 年前
Maybe this test could help you <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.quizexpo.com&#x2F;hobby-quiz&#x2F;" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.quizexpo.com&#x2F;hobby-quiz&#x2F;</a>
Vinsys12将近 3 年前
you mention that you enjoy to go social if you get time after work you can go for some music instrument classes there you feel refreshed if you are into music
leros将近 3 年前
Try to find a hobby that makes you social and a hobby that keeps you physically active. Could even be the same thing.