I think there should be less focus on 'how to be in interesting' for others, and more focus on 'how to stimulate your interests and make life more interesting for yourself'<p>A similar sentiment echoed in this HN discuss a month ago<p><a href="http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3279190" rel="nofollow">http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3279190</a>