The silent/drive-by voting is perhaps the only part of HN that feels toxic. And I'm guilty of it too. If voting were restricted to those who post replies, especially downvotes, that would solve it.<p>I find this overemphasis on politeness and kindness (endemic in the great white north) makes it impossible to have a real, meaty discussion. We can't have serious discussions about problems if we're always worried about hurting each other's feelings. Facts are facts, cannot be replaced by feelings or beliefs, no matter how much wishes so. So, no, let's not water down the discussion just to preserve each other's egos, either in HN or in real life.