Kudos to the admin for writing this up and making it public.<p>Everyone’s lives will involve an irretrievable loss of something, on some scale, at some point. A friend, partner, parent, child — those are the big ones. Your home, job, your pet, a precious object (or in this case, data), or an enjoyment of something: the accumulation can be a lot to handle as time goes on, but it’s also human nature, and it’s important to learn to tackle grief without ignoring it.<p>Grief is so core to being human that, thankfully, it is an aspect of life where you can find a lot of support. Religious communities, for example, can provide a lot of help that at the same time will be orthogonal to their core mission of worship. You can benefit from the former without having to engage with the latter. Don’t worry about being transactional in looking for help — people will <i>want</i> to help you.