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Lone Wolf, Letting Go

40 点作者 vitabenes超过 1 年前

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lionkor超过 1 年前
As comforting as it may be, labelling yourself can be super detrimental in the long run.<p>Maybe at first you attach a label to yourself to belong, or to find others who feel similarly. Maybe you do it as a way to try to &quot;skip&quot; past the parts of your life where you have to find out who you are, what you like, etc.<p>Once you attach such a label, for example &quot;I&#x27;m a democrat&quot;, &quot;I&#x27;m a lone wolf&quot;, &quot;I&#x27;m straight&quot;, etc., and maybe you even tell people and put it in your online profiles, you introduced inertia into your own personality. Find our you&#x27;re bisexual, or maybe your political opinions are a bit too complex to just say &quot;democrat&quot;, or maybe you enjoy working in teams if its the right people (as in this post). I may feel like I belong to a group now, but tomorrow that may change, and then I have to justify that to myself and others.<p>I will have to admit that either I changed, or I was wrong, and that can be very hard.<p>Labels are detrimental, and I would recommend not using them. Every person is their own individual, and there is very little sense in trying to list and specify every single group, label and subculture you are part of. Just replace it with &quot;I&#x27;m me&quot;, and that&#x27;s all you need.<p>Theres a lot of trendiness with labelling yourself &quot;ADHD&quot; or &quot;different&quot; or &quot;depressed&quot; (etc.) on social media, and the same rules apply here.
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AdieuToLogic超过 1 年前
&gt; My own business is on the back burner. And who knows, I may not return to it any time soon. If ever. In this emerging season of life, I’m all-in on Foster. It’s work that brings me alive, and I’m doing it alongside a handful of my closest internet homies.<p>This reminds me of a philosophy a good friend of mine shared with me years ago; die broke.<p>When he first said this to me, my reaction was &quot;that won&#x27;t be too hard to do.&quot; But then my friend shared with me that it was not a trite phrase, but instead a unique (to me) way to think about one&#x27;s career.<p>It turns out there is a book[0] dedicated to this topic and better still a four page synopsis is available[1].<p>What I would add to counterbalance the possible nihilistic flavour of the synopsis is to intersperse doing the things one wants to do between the gigs which pay for them. Much like using and then recharging batteries.<p>0 - <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.goodreads.com&#x2F;book&#x2F;show&#x2F;45511.Die_Broke" rel="nofollow noreferrer">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.goodreads.com&#x2F;book&#x2F;show&#x2F;45511.Die_Broke</a><p>1 - <a href="http:&#x2F;&#x2F;cbduncan.duncanheights.com&#x2F;Books&#x2F;DieBroke.pdf" rel="nofollow noreferrer">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;cbduncan.duncanheights.com&#x2F;Books&#x2F;DieBroke.pdf</a>
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Waterluvian超过 1 年前
Identity is an incredibly powerful tool. It can also be unnecessarily limiting. Being able to change one’s identity is almost a super power.
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theobromananda超过 1 年前
&quot;Life itsef&quot;, a &quot;semi-monastic co-living hub&quot; which is supposed to be &quot;a place for experimentation, exploration, and learning, where people can engage in self-work, creative work, and spiritual practices&quot; yet has only two and a half hours in the morning and three in the evening for unscheduled time to practice these. If I just do my yoga-qigong-kungfu, the morning space is filled, and do my normal morning meditation in the three hours in the afternoon. No time for experimentation, exploration or learning.<p>There are also in the direction of twenty people on the team with all kinds of expertise. This whole thing smells like the opposite of a monastic space, which usually consists of an abundance of time and space. Here it seems to be overflowing with all kinds of &quot;modernized&quot; practices and ideas about how that time and space is supposed to be filled. The absence of that normally characterises a monastic space.<p>I am probably misreading it, but I still wanted to post this. The blog post seems like normal psycho-development.
anyoneamous超过 1 年前
I had to stop reading after a couple of sections as I was worried the whole thing was a set-up to a &quot;giving a FUQ&quot; punchline.