I like this post. I feel identified.<p>I would add that in my case, sometimes I feel pain, and I do not know what information I can get from it.<p>For instance, when someone criticizes one of my projects, I have pain and also information to improve.<p>Unfortunately, some of my projects do not have any feedback, just indifference. Like when I have no comment in HN. I have pain and no information. I do not know what to learn from it.<p>Perhaps, in those cases, the information is that I have to keep on building, and keep on trying.