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Strange Sex Habits of Silicon Valley

31 点作者 nireyal大约 13 年前

6 条评论

tseabrooks大约 13 年前
My wife and I don't have cable.. but we do have Hulu / netflix... and we often watch while working in the evening. However, our friends are always VERY surprised to find out we don't have a TV in our bedroom (We have 5 50" TVs scattered throughout the house thanks to my previous Job)... I always tell them the same thing, "If we're in bed, and we're awake enough to watch TV we've got better things to do"... Our no electronics in the bedroom (In the bed for mobile devices) has been a staple of our marriage since the very beginning and has allowed us lots of.. erm.. intimate moments.
vectorpush大约 13 年前
This feels like a problem for people who are only just recently discovering the wonders of tech. I was obsessed with programming and PC games as far back as I can remember, and the social cost of spending hours staring at screen became obvious to me long before I reached high-school. These days, the ubiquity of internet gadgets does not phase me at all. I can put down an iPad just as easily as I can shut off my playstation. I developed the discipline to manage my electronic addictions as a teen because I quickly discovered it was impossible to spend 14 hours a day glued to a screen while also maintaining relationships with those who wanted to go to the movies or hang out and listen to music.<p>As an adult, the pathway for breaking away from electronics is so well worn that the idea of choosing e-mail over human intimacy seems comically absurd. This is not to say I no longer obsess over new toys, but my brain has learned to supplement the happiness I derive from positive social interaction with the knowledge that all the cool gadgets I relish are patiently suspended and awaiting my return, following a fulfilling day (or night) of time spent with those I care about.
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rc55大约 13 年前
Out of mere curiosity I tried the old Coral Cache link technique; the service is still going!<p><a href="http://www.nirandfar.com.nyud.net/2012/05/strange-sex-habits-of-silicon-valley.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.nirandfar.com.nyud.net/2012/05/strange-sex-habits...</a>
philh大约 13 年前
&#62; The rule allowed time to do what some behavioral psychologists call “surfing the urge.” When an urge takes hold, bringing attention to the sensations of stress and riding them like a wave–neither pushing them away, nor acting on them–helps us cope until the feelings subside.<p>I haven't heard of this before, but it seems potentially really useful.
kjemperud大约 13 年前
Great stuff as always, Nir. Love the personal touch :)
Mz大约 13 年前
I can't access the article: "Error establishing a database connection"<p>I imagine that involves some sort of cosmic humour since as of this week I have been celibate for seven years.<p>Failure to connect indeed.