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I Know the secret to the quiet mind. I wish I'd never learned it (2021)

185 点作者 ianai大约 1 年前

19 条评论

lijok大约 1 年前
Amazing recount.<p>I was fortunate to learn in 2018, at a relatively young age, that my mental faculties are the most precious thing I have in life (after my wife ofcourse). It was a very simple accident; chasing a high I let my bike get too fast going downhill on a wet road, a car on the other side was oncoming, I break, the back wheel slips out from under me, I hit my head on the road (with a helmet on). A bruised knee, elbow and shoulder, bit of pain, no damage to the bike, so I get up and continue. 15 minutes later I get home, a sharp migraine sets in, and suddenly, I realize, I can&#x27;t remember how I got home. In fact, I can&#x27;t remember most of last week. Luckily an MRI, an OK from a doctor and a couple of weeks later my memory returns and I&#x27;m no worse for the wear.<p>In that moment, when I realized I couldn&#x27;t recall how I got home, the worst panic I have ever had set in. I&#x27;ve had two close calls with drowning and was in a car crash in the past, and have never felt the panic I had felt in that moment, just sitting comfortably at home, realizing my brain no longer works. I wasn&#x27;t scared I had a brain bleed or something and would die, I was scared I would lose my mental faculties.<p>Since then my outlook on life has taken a complete turn. I&#x27;ve become a lot more cognizant of how I spend my time and what issues I engage with mentally.<p>What we have is precious, it can dissapear in a second, on an otherwise perfect day.
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alexpotato大约 1 年前
Many years ago I read an article (which I can&#x27;t seem to find) that had the following key points:<p>- Very smart guy<p>- Had some kind of blood circulatory issue so reduced oxygen to the brain<p>- BUT was a very active cyclist so has very good cardio<p>- due to both of the above, he was getting enough O2 to be functional but effectively had a lower IQ<p>- circulatory issue was eventually identified and then corrected<p>His comments (paraphrased):<p>&quot;Being less smart was kind of a blessing. Instead of getting frustrated when things weren&#x27;t working when there were obvious solutions, my attitude changed to just accepting things.<p>As soon as my circulatory issues where resolved, I went right back to being frustrated.&quot;
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ianai大约 1 年前
She and her family were hit by a wrong way truck probably going 70 mph. It completely shattered their bodies, lives and shows how precious our moments are.<p>This almost feels personal to me because of how well written her account is. I’ve had terrible chronic migraines for as long as i can remember. Apparently they can be associated with brain lesions, too. I’ll clearly never know how they’ve impacted my personality.
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sph大约 1 年前
What a well-written story. I don&#x27;t have much to add, but I can say her humour or writing talent seems to be quite sharp for someone that feels she has not completely regained her mental faculties.<p>Also the joke about opening a spa where she whacks stressed people with a bat so they find respite from our busy world: we already do that ourselves when we reach mental burnout. I did, and in some ways, I feel that years later, my mental sharpness is still not what it used to be. Perhaps burnout is as traumatic to the brain as a massive brain injury; certainly takes as long to heal from.
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the-dude大约 1 年前
(2021)<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;archive.is&#x2F;hm5Ai" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;archive.is&#x2F;hm5Ai</a><p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;news.ycombinator.com&#x2F;item?id=27554686">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;news.ycombinator.com&#x2F;item?id=27554686</a>
keybored大约 1 年前
The title says “the quiet mind”. This seems to allude to the temporary cessation of the discursive mind in (Buddhist) meditation.<p>&gt; When we return to New York I take the subway to doctor appointments. I don’t take out my phone, I just sit. My brain is quiet, which I find suspicious, but also soothing. Before the accident I went to yoga retreats and tried meditation. I said things like “I just need to unplug.” Apparently what I needed was to get hit by a truck. Perhaps I have discovered the secret to a peaceful mind, and it is traumatic brain injury. I fantasize about opening an expensive spa where busy people pay me money to whack them on the head with a baseball bat.<p>Levity aside, I’ve never seen a master meditator discuss “quieting the mind” as a downside.
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poszlem大约 1 年前
For some reason I found this line particularly funny and poignant:<p>&quot;But did you know that you can eat whole grains and still get hit by a truck?&quot;
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CobaltFire大约 1 年前
I had a &quot;moderate&quot; TBI while in the military, and I&#x27;m actually dealing with a migraine today.<p>I am absolutely less smart (however you want to phrase that) on the days I have a migraine. I can&#x27;t quantify it, but I can say that on normal days I can do advanced math, etc. and on migraine days I just... can&#x27;t understand it. It&#x27;s like it just doesn&#x27;t &quot;click&quot;.<p>It&#x27;s fascinating and gives me profound empathy for those who don&#x27;t have the mental faculties I do (on my good days).
SillyUsername大约 1 年前
That reads as somebody experiencing PTSD in addition to the injury. The &quot;am I me&quot; and new perspective on work and life happens as a consequence of life altering tragedy.
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cbruns大约 1 年前
So much of this article resonates with me. Fortunately ours was not as horrific. Last year, my family was in a car <i>crash</i> while stopped at a stop sign. Someone from the crossing road veered off directly into my driver&#x27;s side without slowing, about 40 mph. My pregnant wife and two year old daughter were in the back seat. My wife sustained a concussion and extreme anxiety about the condition of our unborn child for the remainder of the pregnancy. My nose was broken and face scarred. My daughter was physically unharmed.<p>Everything she says about feeling like its important to tell people that you did nothing wrong, that it wasn&#x27;t an &#x27;accident&#x27; (oopsie, I almost killed your entire family!), that somehow you have to just keep on living your same life again and driving like this couldn&#x27;t happen any minute ever again - I feel in my bones and don&#x27;t think I will every be comfortable on the road or around cars ever again.<p>The person that hit us fled and was not pursued or found. Sometimes I wonder if they ever get curious about what happened to us. Also, turns out uninsured motorist coverage only applies if you can prove they didn&#x27;t have insurance, hah.
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proaralyst大约 1 年前
This is a really interesting account. One thing I found myself wondering was how much is the shift in her caused by the TBI, and how much by the assertion that she and her family are mortal?
nunez大约 1 年前
This sounds like an head-on collision that happened on a high speed rural two-lane road with an impatient driver thinking they could complete a tight pass in time. I absolutely hate these roads, for this reason.
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Tuffgoose大约 1 年前
Perspective granted. A good reminder of how often I take basic cognitive function for granted and a reminder that we’re entirely dependent on this system our existence is wired into.
btbuildem大约 1 年前
Long time ago I had a concussion resulting from a skiing accident. It wasn&#x27;t immediately apparent, but it was severe enough that I lost my job and spent ten months on unemployment. For the worst of it I was stupid, I couldn&#x27;t be funny, and I was overall greatly diminished as a person. Luckily, it wasn&#x27;t as bad as concussions can get, and it faded with time.<p>This type of injury terrifies me though, and from what I read about the long-term effects of Covid, I can&#x27;t believe people are just going along with it as if it was a common cold. To lose my mental faculties, long-term, is prospect beyond depressing.
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cqqxo4zV46cp大约 1 年前
Any updates on how she’s been going?
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santoshalper大约 1 年前
Interesting that even in the middle of recovering, she was still such a strong writer. There are a few really excellent turns of phrase and gut punches in a pretty short article.
nprateem大约 1 年前
Is there a follow-up?
wwilim大约 1 年前
My mom always used to say &quot;if you want to be happy, get a lobotomy&quot;
m3kw9大约 1 年前
Paywalled, who’s got some snaps on the petro?
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