@jseliger, thank you for sharing. Sorry to welcome you to the club nobody wants to join. And congratulations for making it this far. And bravo for setting such an example fighting on others' behalf. I'd like to do more of that myself. My prognosis was similarly grim: median life expectancy of 18 months, 5-year survival rate of 10%. That was more than 11 years ago. My point is that nobody knows what will happen.
If hearing more about my story might be helpful, or if I could send you one or two books that helped me the most, please just let me know. No pressure. In any case, know you're not alone, you're loved, and you're profoundly connected to the broader family of cancer survivors. It's a strange and terrible gift, to be confronted with your mortality. All good thoughts your way, brother.