I had severe issues as a kid with both my head and brain size (which well, still haunts me today, this big head, hehe), but I never got that autism diagnostic, or actively looked for a doctor for it.<p>A doctor wanted to operate my brain as a baby, but my mother didn't let it, and in the end, it was the right choice as it had a meaningful chance of my death.<p>I also struggled with language at first, and I went to many years of speech therapy, but eventually, it got better. My learning rate with languages is definitely not the best, but I still speak three languages after a good amount of effort and can communicate effectively.<p>It also gave me plenty of advantages; I always scored pretty high on IQ tests and had very good long-term memory.<p>Because I don't buy this narrative from the article or in medical research that there are two kinds of autism. In my opinion, there's only one, and that one has SEVERE conditions; I had a relative who had autism, and it was complicated for both the person and their parents. To me, this seems like a naming issue like software engineers do, who struggle to name an abstraction correctly, and after three years, that abstraction means everything.<p>Having a different kind of brain wiring isn't some sort of sickness or anomaly. All brains are very different, just like your toes. When you compare them to others, you'll see quite a few differences.