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How to be a Norwegian parent: let your kids roam free

16 点作者 PotatoNinja10 个月前

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thatoneguy10 个月前
This reads a lot like my childhood of the &#x27;80s and early &#x27;90s in the US with zero supervision due to having a single mom.<p>Total survivorship bias, however, as plenty of bad things happened to my fellow kids that I was lucky enough to escape. And even though I made it through, it doesn&#x27;t mean I don&#x27;t have at least one story where I was chased around a big empty field by another kid wielding a rusty machete.<p>And it&#x27;s not all pickled herring and aquavit in Norway, as well. A story like this would surprise a lot of people, even in the US:<p><a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.theguardian.com&#x2F;theguardian&#x2F;2010&#x2F;mar&#x2F;20&#x2F;norway-town-forgave-child-killers" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.theguardian.com&#x2F;theguardian&#x2F;2010&#x2F;mar&#x2F;20&#x2F;norway-t...</a>
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8fingerlouie10 个月前
It&#x27;s pretty much the same in Denmark, at least if you live in a small town.<p>Our youngest has walked to the bus every morning since starting school at age 7. Granted, it&#x27;s only a 800 meter walk, but still it&#x27;s a good 10-15 minutes when your legs are short :)<p>After school, we might get a text message saying &quot;i&#x27;m over at xxx&#x27;s house&quot;, or we might not, but alarms usually don&#x27;t start going off until 1-2 hours after expected arrival, at which point we may call the &quot;usual suspects&quot; to inquire if our child is there, and since pretty much everybody else around here does the same, there&#x27;s no &quot;shaming&quot;, as they might be the ones calling tomorrow :)<p>Being able to actually track the kids down was a major factor in them getting a phone. Our oldest didn&#x27;t get a phone until he was 12, and obviously we didn&#x27;t get texts from him, so it was the &quot;if he&#x27;s not home in 2 hours, we&#x27;ll start calling around&quot;. These days, with the youngest, we can mostly just look at the &quot;Find&quot; app and see where he is. As for the oldest, he has turned off location tracking, but happily shares his location on Snapchat, so same same but different :D<p>It is a bit more strict than when i was a kid, but not far from it. When i grew up, i had a key for the house, and i could let my self in after school, or go out again, with the expectation that i would leave a note on the kitchen table with my approximate whereabouts. My parents both worked, and wouldn&#x27;t be home until around dinner. It was the same for everybody else, so we just organized our own &quot;play dates&quot;, and probably also got into more trouble that we would have if adults had been around, but hey, everybody made it out alive, and i believe we&#x27;re stronger for it.
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bell-cot10 个月前
Sounds very much like the century-ago rural America that my parents grew up in.<p>But well-to-do, vs. farm work &amp; domestic chores.<p>EDIT: And also quite similar to my own mid-20th-century suburban American childhood. Which certainly was not well-to-do...but there weren&#x27;t hours of daily chores for us kids.
08234987234987210 个月前
This* was my (dual parent) childhood in the US, but maybe that was only last century?<p>This is my experience of my new country, and is part of the reason I enjoy living here and not in the Old Country.<p>(and I never travelled across the country; at most an hour or two away. But the fact remains: you all had a country like this, so it should be perfectly possible to implement afresh)
08234987234987210 个月前
&gt; <i>I’m not so sure about my future five-year-old returning home to tell me he’d been working on his stick whittling and knife skills at his London nursery</i><p>I&#x27;ve heard that kids in sweden are <i>required</i> to have a knife on school trips. How else are you going to get your sausage onto the stick to cook it over the fire?
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sigmoid1010 个月前
This stuff usually just feels like a rich people flex. &quot;Yeah, we don&#x27;t worry about this stuff you seem to worry about. But we also live in an ecologically pristine place with ultra-high living standards and extremely low crime rates and a very manageable population density.&quot; - Good for you. But not everyone can be born there or afford to live there. So taking any of this as general advice is somewhere between laughable and stupid.
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