I saw that some comments pick-up on VCs being adamant on founder's nervousness and such.<p>Probably, OP should have mentioned different pointers, but still I think that such comments are missing an important point of this post by Josh - honest feedback almost never works.<p>I have managed up to 30 people, [colleagues and HQ people not counting] - 95% of the time honest feedback does not work, mostly because of the:<p>- ego, or<p>- hidden agenda<p>5% it worked with people, with whom I had working relationships, based on mutual trust AND they were all GetDone high performing individuals.<p>So what do you do when you know that honest feedback will not work?<p>Are you going to hit a brick wall with your head?<p>No... you come up with some nice words, etc.<p>You can like such people, value them, but if you feel that they can not accept your honest feedback, you don't give it.