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Why so many families are "drowning in toys"

66 点作者 gmays6 个月前

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_fat_santa6 个月前
&gt; Shelves overflowing with cars and blocks and action figures can be just as stressful for kids as they are for parents. Sometimes “kids don’t play with anything, because there’s just too many options,” said Sarah Davis<p>I find it quite interesting that &quot;choice fatigue&quot; is found just about everywhere, from what show to watch on Netflix to what toy your kid picks up. Semi related anecdote but I recently picked up a Steam Deck with the intention of emulating PS2 games. One thing I was very intentional about is to not load it up right away with every game imaginable but rather, go one game at a time, much like I used to when I still had to buy these games at the store.<p>I use the Deck quite often and attribute much of that to the fact that I limited my game options, as if I loaded up every game I could possibly play then I would just drown in choices.
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bunderbunder6 个月前
I&#x27;m pretty convinced that it&#x27;s ruining fun.<p>We moved a few months ago, and even now about 90% of their toys are still packed up in boxes. No exaggeration. We didn&#x27;t make a thing of it, we just quietly decided not to unpack anything by default - neither kids&#x27; stuff nor parents&#x27; stuff - and instead only unpack specific things when someone specifically wants them. Because how often do you get such a good chance to find out which of your possessions you actually care about?<p>So far what we&#x27;ve seen is:<p><pre><code> 1. Less sibling conflict. 2. Less complaining about being bored. 3. More creative play. 4. Zero complaining about not enough toys.</code></pre>
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pkaler6 个月前
I have a 9 month old and we are drowning in toys. We have bought very few of them. The article is clearly not written by a parent because it barely touches on Buy Nothing Groups on Facebook.<p>We&#x27;ve barely bought any clothes either. They all come from Buy Nothing groups. Kids grow out of toys and clothes every 3 months. Parents are desperate to offload this stuff.<p>And my wife has become a hoarder as have other parents in the neighbourhood. Buy Nothing groups seem to set off some sort of hoarding affliction in parents.
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MrMcCall6 个月前
It looks like the parents in the article are not teaching their children that each kind of toy should be put away before the next toy gets brought out to play with. Teaching children that mixing all one&#x27;s toys up creates an unusable chaos is a good lesson for how to (not) organize one&#x27;s work environment, room&#x27;s clothing, kitchen area, etc. Installing a sense of order is IMO a valuable lesson for young people.<p>As a family with a lot of Lego (both daughter&#x27;s Friends stuff and son&#x27;s Technics and Ninjago), they have put in signifcant work to keep it sorted so that it remains usable.<p>I understand that most parents are not so diligent (time constraints for working parents are brutal), but our primary advantage is that the kids have never had their own tvs or internet-connected devices (except for son&#x27;s chess computer which is in our living room). Not having on-demand media has left them needing to choose their own activities, which includes asking to watch something specific within our shared media computer.<p>What is nice about this is that we almost never have to ask either of them to clean&#x2F;organize their areas, because they have learned the Marie Kondo-style kind of joy in keeping your area organized. And, yes, our daughter read and loved that book.<p>[Side note: not having on-demand media also helps develop their joy of reading, though it was more difficult for our son than daughter.]
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digging6 个月前
Reminds me of going through my old toy chest with my parents. Most of what I found I just tossed - my mom wanted to offload to goodwill but I was sure few of them were worth it.<p>The items I wanted to keep were mostly either silly figures of animals I like (old-school dinosaurs, etc), or creative stuff like Bionicles. In fact, I took home the Bionicles and spent a few weekends actually playing with them, creating new figures. I&#x27;m certainly not neurotypical, but I feel that a decent barometer for toys that will truly engage a child is &quot;Could a creative adult also enjoy this?&quot;<p>I have some young children in my life and agree the landscape of toys-and-their-ads is insane these days. Especially with the crisp unboxing videos, it&#x27;s so hard <i>not</i> to want to get the weird (and, truthfully, often quite creative, on the designer&#x27;s part) stuff that&#x27;s coming out. I sympathize with parents; it&#x27;s never going to be easy to say no even once you&#x27;ve identified that a badly desired toy is actually going to be a waste of money 6 hours after purchase.
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efields6 个月前
The biggest takeaway for me is that toys are 4x cheaper to make than they were 20 years ago, adjusted for inflation. So it&#x27;s just easier to buy more of them.<p>As another poster mentions, this article fails to dig into the Buy Nothing communities, or even Facebook Marketplace. We actively try to get rid of the kids stuff as they outgrow them, and these are the two places we first hit up.
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darrylb426 个月前
Not to mention the really cheap plastic stuff given away in gift bags when it is someone&#x27;s birthday. Small non-functional yo-yo&#x27;s balls with paddle. etc. Since you can&#x27;t give food or candy for fear of nuts.<p>For things like LEGO they are mostly specific sets, so they get built and displayed like models by my kids. Rarely to they build random stuff like I did when I was little, with only a small amount of LEGO.
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toddmorey6 个月前
My advice for young parents is to make birthdays and holidays gifts of an experience. Encourage loved ones to not buy any toys and contribute to a party, train ride, bouncy castle, petting zoo... whatever it is. If you want to do any gifts at all, make the tradition 1 or 2 special gifts that the parents pick out. Of all the loot a kid acquires on their<p>Your kids will have better, more memorable birthdays and you&#x27;ll have SOOOO much less junk and clutter in the house.
jmyeet6 个月前
Having young relatives, I&#x27;ve noticed this issue. I attribute it to several factors:<p>1. Declining birth rates. There are more adults in a given child&#x27;s life;<p>2. Delayed child birth. Not only are there less children per year because of this, but it also means the parents and relatives are older and tend to be more affluent;<p>3. Larger houses. Possessions are like a gas. They will expand to fill available space. This affects every possession type, not just toys. Where once a family of 5 might be in a 3x1 1100sq ft house, now it&#x27;s a family of 3 in a 3000sq ft house;<p>4. Toys are generally cheaper (the article mentions this) and easier to get thanks to Amazon;<p>5. Increased information. You&#x27;re now aware of many things you previously weren&#x27;t before the Internet. So an aunt or uncle could bring a toy you&#x27;ve never heard of. Now? You&#x27;ve seen Tiktoks about everything the second it&#x27;s available. So with increased means and knowledge of pretty much everything, there are fewer unfulfilled needs.<p>6. Guilt. People generally have to work longer hours, more jobs and harder than they did 30+ years ago. As necessary as that is, you will find people &quot;compensating&quot; for the lack of time with material things;<p>7. Children spend less time playing with each other because now everything is a &quot;play date&quot;. We&#x27;ve come a long way from the TV ads of &quot;do you know where your children are?&quot; that would play at 10pm. Now you get arrested if your children walk to the store by themselves [1]. As much as people bemaon video games, computers and devices, it&#x27;s often the only social outlet with peers children have.<p>8. A single device (eg console, phone, tablet) can replace the need for many toys so these things tend to collect rather than breaking and getting thrown out.<p>[1]: <a href="https:&#x2F;&#x2F;abcnews.go.com&#x2F;US&#x2F;georgia-moms-arrest-puts-free-range-parenting-back&#x2F;story?id=116004039" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;abcnews.go.com&#x2F;US&#x2F;georgia-moms-arrest-puts-free-rang...</a>
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sourcepluck6 个月前
If there&#x27;s a social expectation of coming with a present to your nephew or cousin or mother or whoever&#x27;s birthday, or at Christmas, or whatever, and you know no-one wants to have a discussion about different ways to do things... what do you do, other than buy some silly thing that ticks the required social box? Genuine question.<p>I&#x27;ve tried a few little things myself, but with very little success. There just is an established set of patterns where you have to buy certain things, or else there&#x27;ll be mumbling behind your back, and there doesn&#x27;t seem to be a way around it in the short term (other than accepting the mumbling).
asciimov6 个月前
You’ve gotta get ahead of the problem when they’re little, get rid of toys early and often. Kid doesn’t play with it, away it goes. If the grandparents don’t like it they can keep them at their house.<p>Exceptions made for the kids or parents favorites that aren’t broken: Barbie, Hot Wheels, Lego, etc.
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matthewfcarlson6 个月前
My own experience, but I&#x27;ve been very happy with the level of toys I have. It feels manageable and I can pick up all toys within 5 minutes (depending on how scattered they got). However, whenever kids come over to my house (particularly slightly older children- 6+), their first comment almost without fail is &quot;where are all the toys?&quot;<p>I feel like our choice has been fairly intentional.
lbrito6 个月前
I&#x27;m a parent of two young kids and don&#x27;t really sympathize with this.<p>Its self-inflicted and part of a larger culture of Having More Stuff. Having lived most of my life in South America and later migrated to North America, I feel I can see that more clearly than people who grew up here.<p>People always go over the top with anything material. Have a single child? You <i>need</i> a minivan. Family of four? You <i>need</i> a 3-level, 2000-sqft house (with the garage where you will never park your minivan, because it is full to the ceiling with clutter you never use). Toys are just another facet of this culture.<p>As someone from the outside who has been around, I can say the rest of world is not like this. Its not particularly hard to avoid. Just buy less stuff, and donate&#x2F;dispose of things you don&#x27;t want or need.
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riffraff6 个月前
It&#x27;s interesting that the article keeps referring to stuff kids see in tv or YouTube. But my kids don&#x27;t watch TV with ads and don&#x27;t watch YouTube unboxing videos, and my house is still too full of toys.<p>I have to keep reminding my friends and relatives to not get them more stuff. Toys are just too easy too available.
duxup6 个月前
Toys are cheap, many last a long time, and they&#x27;re handed down &#x2F; given away regularly. Even when we bought toys we got them at a second hand store and they were crazy cheap.<p>By the time I had a second child we didn&#x27;t &quot;need&quot; anymore toys, but we still got them for birthdays, holidays and so on.
widowlark6 个月前
I own an Analogue Pocket, which is an FPGA system for the gameboy color (and more). I have found that by forcing myself to just play the inserted cartridge instead of games loaded on the the memory card, I have a high attention span for the game and can play for longer periods.
analog316 个月前
I think among all of the explanations, hoarding behavior is easily overlooked because there&#x27;s a stigma associated with it. We&#x27;re drowning in stuff. I think it helps to analyze and critique why we hoard. Some examples that have been helpful to my family:<p>&quot;We&#x27;re saving it from the landfill.&quot; It just means your house becomes a landfill.<p>&quot;We&#x27;re saving it for the poor.&quot; The poor are drowning in stuff too. A lot of the stuff collected by charities goes to the landfill, either here or in third world countries.<p>&quot;We&#x27;re saving it for the kids.&quot; The kids are drowning in stuff too.<p>&quot;But these are books.&quot; I&#x27;ve made peace with sending books to the landfill. And tools.<p>&quot;Grandma gave it to us.&quot; She&#x27;ll never know.
julienchastang6 个月前
It is a sad and colossal waste. From experience, when the kids are grown you have to decide what to do with the toys that are often half broken or with missing parts you have no idea where they ended up. As the article states, these toys come into your house whether you want them or not. You agonize about how to get rid of them in a responsible way (much more time consuming than acquiring the toy to begin with), only to find out that the landfill is pretty much the only option.
koinedad6 个月前
This is very true, it’s super stressful for kids especially when they have a messy room depending on their personality type they can be completely paralyzed by the amount of toys. Having higher quality or even just toys curated to the core desires of the child can help reduce wasteful purchases. I can’t count how many “awesome” toys I’ve donated to goodwill because my kids realized they didn’t want them after a few days, or weeks.
DamnInteresting6 个月前
My parents-in-law, who live hours away, buy an enormous quantity of toys for my five-year-old. Big, obnoxious play sets. We have to frequently shuffle toys out just to have room for new stuff. On the occasions when they actually visit, they make snarky remarks about how we have so many toys for one kid. They are causing the problem and then mocking us for it. Make it stop.
gwbas1c6 个月前
My kids have a doll castle.<p>So many barbies and barbie-like dolls have shown up, that they are often laying in a pile at the bottom of the doll castle.<p>I dread opening the doll castle because the sight of the dolls laying, stacked on the castle&#x27;s floor, just brings back images I&#x27;ve seen of ethnic cleansing.
senectus16 个月前
My household is starting to have a hoarding issue... I can recognise some of this is me... and am taking steps to fix that but my partner is a real hoarder. I&#x27;m just not sure how to deal with it.
chiffre016 个月前
Is anyone here involved in the toy industry, whether in design or another role? What’s the industry’s take on this?
carlosjobim6 个月前
The article is not talking about the real cause: There is an ongoing extermination of young people through low birth rates. Any child today is inheriting toys from several childless uncles and aunts and friends of parents, or getting presents from them.
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simne6 个月前
Is this bad or good?
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