For a few years I've been aggressively removing anything being pushed to me. Notifications, emails, feeds. My phone is on silent mode most of the time. Most things do not require my immediate attention, right there in the middle of another task.<p>I have also unfollowed everyone and everything. I check specific things when I remember about them. There's nothing to catch up on.<p><a href="https://nicolasbouliane.com/blog/silence" rel="nofollow">https://nicolasbouliane.com/blog/silence</a><p>I also have less patience for maintenance. I trimmed down what I self-host to things that just work.
Tesla FSD.<p>The last few updates have introduced significant regressions in red light handling, resulting in the car attempting to run red lights about 5x in the last 2 months. Here is an example of how blatant it is: <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/TeslaFSD/comments/1jvonrw/tesla_tries_running_red_light_never_seen_this/" rel="nofollow">https://www.reddit.com/r/TeslaFSD/comments/1jvonrw/tesla_tri...</a><p>Also, the removal of minimal lane changes just sucks, I don't mind being behind a slow car when I am not driving, but I hate when it moves into the fast lane and then slowly passes other cars.
A motor vehicle.<p>I last owned a car in 1997. My black Acura Integra was totaled in that year, by a reckless driver in a Porsche 928 who ran a stop sign. He attempted to commit insurance fraud at the scene of the accident.<p>I rarely miss it. I have saved so much money. And in exchange, I've gained plenty of time to relax, take my mind off things, and meditate. Riding the train and bus allows you to do this, without all the responsibility and liability of your driving privilege.<p>I have indeed retained my driver’s license, and a clean record; once in a while I rent a car, and it’s fun, and grants wonderful freedoms. Also, there are things I can access only with a vehicle: recycling hazardous materials, for example.
Streaming cable news is a significant time sink that adds to my anxiety rather than offering any substantial value. Regardless of your political beliefs or the cable news network you prefer, their primary objective is to maintain your engagement and fixation on the TV for ratings. Important topics are rarely covered with depth, presenting only limited perspectives and information.<p>I made the decision to eliminate cable news from my life, and I’ve found myself much happier in the process.
I started using physical devices again instead of my phone:<p>- Tangara/ipod for music<p>- Physical timer that beeps loudly when it goes off<p>Basically minimising how often I look at my phone, would recommend.
My phone - essentially all social media, video streaming, email and messaging apps.
I check all the emails on my computer only. I do not have any social media presence. Anyone who needs my time mails me or calls me.<p>I use my phone exclusively for call only. It has freed up a lot of my time in the day to get work done.
The vast majority of examples I can think of are things I built myself, then replaced with something more standard, which then freed up large amounts of time.<p>Weekend projects can really take over your life, it's amazing how much annoyance something like a random bug in a DIY note taking app can cause.
I stopped making my smartphone the hub for the rest of my life. Now it's only used for instant messaging, keeping my calendar, an alarm clock, my password manager, a music player, and (very rarely) doing a quick web search for something when out and about. I use it for nothing else.<p>Doing that has significantly improved my life.
Any bookmarking, archiving, or similar tool. I delete everything now outside of financial documents that I have an iCloud folder for. I guess I save photos too, although thats pointless.<p>There’s nothing else I really ever end up going back to look at again.
My Apple Watch. There are very few times where I need instant notification of things and they became distracting - I instead now just check periodically. Granted I probably don’t stand every hour anymore.
Advertising. I pay subscriptions, use adblockers etc.<p>If a website does't allow adblockers, I live without it.<p>I could live with unobtrusive text ads, but they aren't a thing.
Landline phone. Never used it, the only thing I got there was spam, marketing or survey calls.
Twitter for reasons that probably do not need explaining.<p>If low-tech counts: Contacts. They are just so much hassle compared to glasses, the imagined better looks are not worth it.<p>Read-later services. Just another pile of things to manage. If I really need to read something, I add it to my todo app.