This startup that I applied to (well, they contacted me through AngelList) for an internship has decided to fly me out for a technical interview after two phone interviews (one with recruiter, and one with the person that would be my boss). This is my first time ever being flown out for an interview, and I'm a little scared. I feel a lot of pressure to do well with them fronting the cost of the flight and accommodations. Any advice related to this sort of thing?
They obviously have some interest to fly you out, so relax and do the interview and be courteous and all that. But don't worry an iota about their expense: it's part of their budget.
Personally I've been on many trips for interviews. I wouldn't ever think about what it's costing them to get you to the interview. If it's not you, then it's someone else that they will be bringing into the interview and you're better, right?<p>The bottom line is: you're interested in the position, and they are potentially interested in you.
Relax and be yourself. Don't even consider the cost of the flight. They're going to decide whether or not to pay you many tens of thousands of dollars per year, the $1000 to fly you out is insignificant.<p>Be proud of yourself, they want you, and barring any screw up during the final interviews, they'll make you an offer. Don't screw up.
When you fly in negotiations you need to be aware of time. It may be that they sit down and talk about everything except compensation. By leaving it until the end they are putting pressure on you to accept. I suggest you relax and let them play out the negotiations as they see fit. Don't pay attention to time.