Back when I was dating, I had a really hard time meeting "qualified candidates" (i.e. interesting people not enamored with the TV show "The Jersey Shore"), say nothing about ones who were single and interested in dating me. I signed up on a bunch of dating websites, I filled out all of the profiles with minute detail (thinking it proved I wasn't some shallow person interested in a quick hookup), paid very close attention to the content of the profiles I read, and had a process for interviewing people all designed to show I was truly interested in them, and to whittle down to the perfect candidate.<p>After reading your article, I realized it is exactly the same way we try to hire people. We go out on job websites, fill out the job profiles, crawl through resumes and try to interview the perfect candidate. Dice.com, Monster.com, LinkedIn.com, they're the same exact thing as Match.com, eHarmony.com, and OkCupid.com.<p>And shock and horror, it doesn't fucking work in either case. I've had the same exact experience in hiring.<p>There were three things I learned through this process, in both spheres:
1) One got just as good of results from random selection as from HR-based, profile-based, direct-effort candidate searches. Actually, the random selection was better because it didn't take anywhere near as much effort.
2) Boiling people down into numbers and rankings and trying to figure out which one was "better" than the others made me physically ill.
3) The only way to find "the one" was to know them already. I quit trying, I expanded my circle of friends, I completely and successfully changed from an introvert to an extrovert, and eventually the stars aligned.<p>Now, that sounds like a system you can't count on, "stars aligning". But really, I think it is a system you can count on more often than anything else. For one thing, you know the "stars" will eventually "align". "Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity" -- Seneca. Opportunities are presented to you on a daily basis, you just aren't prepared for it.<p>I bet, with near certainty, you've met an amazing female designer/engineer already. You have probably met several. And you have probably met several that are interested in working for a company like yours. You just didn't know it, because you weren't engaging people in conversations AS people. You were trying to hire them.<p>You were trying to turn them into Human Resources.