I think the disconnect is that Facebook sells itself as a way to stay in touch with all your fiends, when in fact, as we all know, it doesn't really work that way. Every change to the site seems to take is farther and farther from the ideal of staying in touch with everybody.<p>Personally, I seem to have it tuned fairly well right now. By keeping a lot of people on "Important Only" updates, I don't see the memes, cat pictures, and political crap unless it's noteworthy enough to generate more than a few comments. Yet I do see the prom pictures of their kids or other things that I actually care about because they do generate enough activity to trigger whatever the threshold is to be an important post.