This always bothers me when I'm interviewing. I've gotten the "better suited candidate" as well as the "lack of experience" and "not right at this time" excuses. How does that help me in any way as a job seeker? I am, in some way, "not right" for the position. How? Too shy, or too forward? Too young or too old? Experienced in the wrong technologies, or not experienced enough in the right ones? Or both?<p>This just leads to depressing frustration. I want to improve and be the right candidate, but I don't know how and no one will help me figure out how.<p>Luckily, I have a job now. But God forbid when I have to start the interviewing process again.