ETA: I agree with mvanveen's comment below. As Georgia says, her duty is done. My confusion should be taken as my own failure to relate. <i>Our</i> duty is to fix these problems.<p>I'm confused by the attitude of (maybe I'm reading this wrong) "This is a big deal, not like that silly 'feminist' stuff" when everything wrong here (other than the attack itself) is subtle institutionalized sexism.<p>They guy's a creeper, but he wasn't already outed and banned.<p>The victim's story is questioned because of flirting/drinking/invitation/politeness<p>She had to second-guess herself and worry about legalities during the attack.<p>She's now afraid of sexist comments and still doesn't want to publicly name someone who is dangerous. (I'm not criticizing her choice per se, the problem is whatever is giving her reason not to identify him)<p>It's easy to treat all of these as little things, but if the community had treated these issues as a big deal and dealt with them, maybe this attack wouldn't even have happened.