Couple of tips, bro:<p>(1) Trying hanging out with women, not girls, for a change.<p>(2) And forget "dating" in the hopelessly broken American sense.<p>And finally:<p>(3) it's interesting that basically all of the analogies he draws are to frameworks, and not to programing, or more specifically <i>hacking</i>. Yes, women are different (in some ways very different) from men. But rather than thinking of the "object" of your desire as some horribly convoluted framework or buggy consumer app, a better analogy might be to a deep programming problem, or some area of mathematics you just need to wrap your head around a little bit to understand (on its own terms, not yours).<p>But once you do, everything will make a lot more sense. And trust me, you'll be getting laid a lot more often, too.