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Meetup Golf - a game I play to keep myself from networking wrong

99 点作者 ledwards将近 12 年前

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_sentient将近 12 年前
I&#x27;ve personally found most networking events to be terrible when it comes to making meaningful connections.<p>I&#x27;ve found it&#x27;s much more effective to just email someone you&#x27;re interested in connecting with, introduce yourself, and invite them meet up sometime for a coffee (or beer, depending on the time of day).<p>If they say yes, it&#x27;s because they are also interested in what you&#x27;re doing, and this acts as a quality filter to ensure you&#x27;re both moderately aligned in your interests and not wasting each other&#x27;s time. Plus, the one-on-one setting lends itself to more interesting and personal conversations, which tends to have the friend-building effect the original author appeals to.<p>Networking doesn&#x27;t come naturally to most people, but being friendly and personable usually does. I find that combining the two removes some of the awkwardness, and makes your efforts that much more effective.
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Aco-将近 12 年前
I prefer my method of &quot;meetup golf&quot;, it&#x27;s a little different than this one.<p>In my version of &#x27;meetup golf&#x27; you basically go play golf, meet people who enjoy golf while doing so, ask them what they do for work, and 1&#x2F;2 the time they are in tech or some form of tech (YMMV depending on where you live &amp; play golf). At the end of the round you shake their hand and say &quot;It was nice meeting you. Hey, listen, if you ever want to play golf in the future or need anything at all feel free to contact me&quot; -- hand them your business card, 9 times out of 10 they will connect on linkedin or shoot an email thereafter.<p>You now have more in common with them than just your profession, you also share a hobby. Also consider there is a 19th hole in golf. This is a far better way to meet, befriend, and build a network that holds some weight.
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w3pm将近 12 年前
One thing I&#x27;ve wondered -- rather than spending so much effort building an extensive network, why not build a very small network of solid connections... with people who have lots of connections?<p>In any industry there are those individuals who seem to &quot;know everyone,&quot; have been next to many industry-shifting moments one way or another, have worked at a half-dozen of the most important companies, etc etc. It&#x27;s clear that a large part of their time is spent networking (after all, it&#x27;s a hard job), and a large part of their value is as a connector. As an added bonus, because they&#x27;re a connector and value having lots of connections, they should be open to the idea of getting to know you and forming another connection.<p>Why not just make connections with 6,7,8 of those people and then be done? You&#x27;d be one hop away to almost everyone in your industry with far less effort than actually getting to know everyone in your industry. Anyway, just theorizing at a more efficient way of networking. Agreed on the article&#x27;s premises that a real network is with people you know as human beings.
totti将近 12 年前
All this requires I &quot;go with a friend or two&quot; to make more friends ... where do I find the initial friends :(
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basicallydan将近 12 年前
Lee - I love this article. I think everybody should read it just to get the idea that this whole &#x27;networking&#x27; thing can get pretty lame at times.<p>I like the way you explain it - but basically, just, &quot;go make friends&quot; is the advice, right? In case you&#x27;re interested in the writings of someone with a similar point of view, I wrote a similar post, slightly rantier, a year or so ago: <a href="http://danielhough.co.uk/blog/human-business-card-jar/" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;danielhough.co.uk&#x2F;blog&#x2F;human-business-card-jar&#x2F;</a>
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hawkharris将近 12 年前
I agree with the author&#x27;s criticism of LinkedIn. My biggest problem with the service is its default placeholder text for connection requests (&quot;David Smith would like to connect with you...&quot;).<p>To me this takes all of the fun and excitement out of networking, not to mention the clarity. When I network with people face-to-face, I always get a sense of how they may want to work with me in the future. E.g. Maybe they&#x27;re a designer; I&#x27;m a programmer; we could collaborate on X kind of project.<p>LinkedIn&#x27;s placeholder text makes connections seem generic and less useful. Today I received five networking requests, but, unlike with real-life networking, I have no clear idea of why the people are reaching out to me.
lifeisstillgood将近 12 年前
I was about to drop 600 quid on a membership to a local networking group (BNI).<p>This has reminded me that networking is primarily a peer group thing, and otherwise it&#x27;s, well, marketing<p>So, coffee mornings I guess
cpncrunch将近 12 年前
Excellent article. I&#x27;m certainly not an expert networker myself, but I would agree that being friendly with your business associates is very important to future business. It doesn&#x27;t mean you necessarily need to hang out with them - even just chatting a little bit about personal stuff once in a while helps to oil the wheels of business. People are human after all, and most people prefer doing business with people they like.