25 and over

Oh, I know <i>so</i> many people to whom I will be emailing this link. Or at least, I would if I could work out how to do it anonymously.<p>Then again, maybe part of being over 25 means I should bite the bullet, make the hard choice, risk pissing off someone I've known for years, and try to help them make their lives better.<p>And then again, who am I to criticise others?<p>Hmm ...

21. Don't make a list of behaviour you dislike and poison the well by labeling it as 'childish', making constructive discussion unlikely.<p>22. Don't make a list of behaviour you dislike that shows you to be completely oblivious of cultural differences.

There are behaviors described here that have given me qualms in the past when I've practiced them. It is useful to have someone else call you on them -- or describe them, as in this page. It lets you know that your unease is not merely subjective; sometimes, self-doubt is a useful message.