Perhaps the worst aspect of all this, is the purposeful, or even casual, ideologue. An arrangement works for them, or they think it does -- or, BEST PRACTICES dictate that it should... and viola, a dictate.<p>I am one who needs some control over his environment. In the majority of cases, these means peace and quiet particularly/mostly from human noise, as well as a lack of visual distraction. (Although there are times when I work well -- best even -- in a frenetic environment; however, these are limited in both type and frequency.)<p>I'm a bit older, and I fell into a generation that was subscribing to and prescribing whole-heartedly the "open", "collaborative" environment.<p>It did not work for me. Yet I received <i>unrelenting</i> pressure, including from medical professionals, that <i>I</i> was the one who... "simply" needed to learn to adapt.<p>Well... now we know a bit better. (Although I don't trust society to have truly "learned" this in any permanent fashion.) But the chronic stress of this situation has caused for me major adjustments in career and, eventually, rather run me down.<p>To put the bottom line at the bottom, here: If a situation is not working for you, IT IS NOT WORKING FOR YOU. TRUST THIS. TRUST YOURSELF!<p>"Professionals" of varying occupations and levels of training will all -- <i>ALL</i> -- tell you all kinds of crap. Even several years of medical school does not divorce most from their prejudices nor from cultural suasion.<p>Don't waste your time -- your life -- running yourself down trying to live up to someone else's idea of the "right way".