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Why am I here?

205 点作者 DavidChouinard超过 11 年前

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11001超过 11 年前
I have just finished an excellent online course called &quot;The Brief History of Humankind&quot;[1]. It was really an eye opener for me. I always loved history, but all the arguments people made about why we need to study it never really resonated with me. The stuff about &quot;not repeating the same mistakes&quot;, &quot;not re-inventing the wheel&quot;, &quot;learning from the past&quot; just never made much sense to me. The real reason to study history, as it was brilliantly presented in the course, is not to learn from the past, but to get liberated from it. We study the past to learn about our present. How did we get here? <i>Why are we here?</i> Often, things we accept as &quot;natural&quot; or permanent, or &quot;optimal&quot; are just a result of decisions and events that occurred long ago in <i>very</i> different context.<p>This post is an excellent reminder that sometimes we need to do the same on the personal level. We need to look back at our past in order to understand our present and decide about our future.<p>[1]<a href="https://www.coursera.org/course/humankind" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.coursera.org&#x2F;course&#x2F;humankind</a>
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strlen超过 11 年前
I always felt that Singapore just doesn&#x27;t seem like the right place for someone like Derek Sivers. It&#x27;s a beautiful and wonderfully located place, but the stated or unstated reasons many US expats give for moving there are narrowly selfish -- in the sense of irrational selfishness vs enlightened self-interest -- low taxes, clean streets. Yet Singapore&#x27;s culture is strongly communitarian: there may be low income taxes, but there are tons of other rules and regulations. The reason for the low taxes, an efficient, universal, and well functioning healthcare system, and so on isn&#x27;t liberal individual empowerment (which is often the reason given for both individualistic economic policies like low tax rates <i>and</i> for safety-net policies like universal healthcare in the West), it&#x27;s greater communal good (which -- unlike in ther West -- is also defined in a way that&#x27;s much more nuanced than &quot;greatest good for the greatest number&quot;). That reality may not hit people immediately, but it will eventually: e.g., if you plan to have kids, be ready for corporal punishment in most schools and even some junior colleges, and (far more burdensome and soul crushing for an individualistic soul) military conscription.<p>Derek talked about this in earlier essays and acknowledge that he was resetting his operating system towards a more communitarian, giving the example of nominally &quot;converting&quot; to Islam to marry a woman. Yet to me that reason still seemed narrowly selfish, a much more principled and selfless act would be to refuse to compromise one&#x27;s greater cultural and religious heritage and forgo one of life&#x27;s greatest long-term pleasures (love) -- something I would not endorse, as it would result in great misery for both himself and now wife.<p>Personally, I am lucky, as I found United State&#x27;s &quot;left coast&quot; and &quot;far west&quot; cultures to be my home: I see my own culture was being a happy medium between these two, but I have a fluent understanding and appreciation of both of these cultures. They mesh far better than the cultures I&#x27;ve been brought up in (secular Jewish and Russian) and I&#x27;m very lucky that I have the ability to pick and choose -- I would simply not survive (in the physical sense) had I attempted to live a life true to my personal views in the land I was born in. I sincerely hope that Derek finds in New Zealand a culture he can belong to.
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rsobers超过 11 年前
I enjoyed the post, but I find it to be such a vast departure from the way I think and feel, mostly because I have a family.<p>Sure, <i>I</i> would love to sit on a balcony in New Zealand, coding and listening to the birds, but I couldn&#x27;t possibly rip my daughter away from her friends and the school she loves.<p>Again, I appreciate the spirit of the post, but reality for most of us precludes this level of whimsy, and I don&#x27;t necessarily think that&#x27;s bad.
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dylanz超过 11 年前
Derek, I did the same thing 6 years ago.<p>I ended up north of you by just a tad bit, in Takaka. It was a long and winding 90 minute drive to get to Nelson, but it definitely felt like the &quot;big city&quot; compared to Golden Bay.<p>When people ask me how my 3 years in New Zealand were, it&#x27;s hard for me to answer. A part of me was working hard, so I spent most of my hours behind my desk, at home, looking at the paddocks across the street. You could have probably put a backdrop behind that window and it would have felt like a beach in Fiji, or downtown Munich, etc. When I wasn&#x27;t behind my desk however, it was a big realization that I was far away from home. After traveling to Europe for conferences a lot, you begin to realize that you are IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE (or somewhere). It is very far from everything else. A 90 minute drive to Nelson, a flight to Auckland, a 14 hour flight to LAX, then a 12 hour flight to Heathrow. Yikes. When I&#x27;d get back to my little house in Takaka however... it felt like home. Small towns, beautiful scenery, great people. My only downfall was that I actually ended up yearning for a market like Whole Foods. I was used to having a HUGE selection of everything to fill my taste buds, and that&#x27;s hard to come by unless you are in some of the larger cities there. Get ready for a lot of fish and chips, and beetroot on hamburgers. I bet you $100 you&#x27;re going to miss your asian cuisine... badly.<p>That said, here is a list of things that come to mind:<p>- Go to the Mussel Inn near Onekaka in the evening. Enjoy their beer, food, and chat with the owner Andrew who has great stories (he&#x27;s the tall guy that looks like Bob Dylan).<p>- Meet up with Galen King in Nelson. He&#x27;s a good friend, a smart technologist, and a great person.<p>- Go to Collingwood and hit up the chocolatier there, Rosie Glows.<p>- Walk around Te Waikoropupū springs and be amazed.<p>I wouldn&#x27;t trade the experience for anything (my second kid was even born there!). Enjoy New Zealand, and make sure to check out Australia while you&#x27;re down there too. You&#x27;re close as you&#x27;re ever going to be =)<p>Noho ora mai rā, nā!
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throwaway3301超过 11 年前
What if you don&#x27;t know the answer to this question (&quot;Why am I here?&quot;)? What if your answer is that you don&#x27;t understand why you&#x27;re still here? When your passion for everything and anything in life has waned to nothingness. When you feel like your body is in a constant state of physical and mental fatigue, bordering on a grinding, gnawing pain? When you feel like a passenger in your own life, stuck in the rat race, stuck in the routine of monotony? When every day boils down to sleep, eat, work, and everything in between ends up as a fuzzy blur?<p>What then? How can I shake this feeling? How can I restore the drive and motivation in myself that I never remember having in the first place? Is it even possible?<p>To follow Mr. Sivers&#x27;s analogy: What if <i>all</i> my reasons have expired? Is that somewhere else... nowhere else? Should I be dead instead? That doesn&#x27;t seem like a very practical path to follow, but yet living feels so draining that I don&#x27;t know how much longer I can carry the weight of a life lived for nothing. It really is all for naught. At this point I feel like I am living this life because it is the life society wants for me: go to school, get a degree, get a job, get married, have kids, grow old, die. That sounds horrible to me and yet I feel so stuck in this formula. I feel so abnormal because I can&#x27;t feel satisfied or fulfilled with this &quot;normal&quot; version of life. And I can&#x27;t tell anyone these things because they will reject me, saying I should just enjoy this or that, or telling me that I should be grateful for what I have. Their words (and this article) don&#x27;t change anything. I know that the change must first come from within, but I don&#x27;t know where to start.
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alexdong超过 11 年前
Derek, we met a while ago when you came down to Dunedin. I&#x27;m glad you finally made the move down here.<p>What I found very interesting is that your decisions are driven not by where to move TO, but what you&#x27;re moving away FROM. Your trip to Oregon, then to Singapore and now NZ seems to follow the similar route. From a vastly different culture and super-densely-populated .sg to the extreme remote and lonesome place like .nz.<p>I feel that&#x27;s probably not the best way to go for it. Instead of trial-and-error, how about a search algorithm? Instead of &quot;Why am I here&quot;, why not ask &quot;Where do I WANT to be?&quot;.<p>Here was the list of criteria me and my wife came up when we were drifting around for a year to look for a city to settle down.<p><i>Crucial</i>: 1) Small country with around 5M population. Coming from China, I feel lots of the problems of modern society &amp; politics is there because of the large degree of separation. 2) Walkabout city. We love walking. I want to make sure the walk from home to office takes no more than 30 minutes. 3) Close to nature. Tramping is our main hobby. We want to start walking in the wild with less than 1 hour drive. (Reality is the closest one is 5 minutes walk from home but that&#x27;s a bonus.) 4) With a high quality university. This gives us the continuous flow of different ideas even the city is small. 5) Price is moderate. We want to have the leisure time to spend with our families and work on our hobbies. Affordable housing and reasonable prices give us the lifestyle we want without having to work our butts off.<p><i>Ok to give up</i>: 1) Museums, galleries and fine restaurants. Even when we were living in Seattle or Boston, we spend more time on solitude activities like walking and reading. So cultural stuffs are great but we won&#x27;t die if we don&#x27;t have them. 2) Varieties of products&#x2F;shops. We don&#x27;t buy a lot of stuff and when we do, we buy ones that last very very long but not particularly in-the-fashion. So don&#x27;t have much choices is not a big problem for us. 3) Weather. I love San Diego&#x27;s weather. Never too cold. Never too hot. But if it&#x27;s a city that rains a lot and doesn&#x27;t have a proper hot summary, we&#x27;re fine with that.<p>We visited and stayed in more than 40 cities during that year. Some we stayed 2 months, others a few days. When we started the trip, we have never heard of Dunedin. But those criteria helped us to quickly sift through the options and lead us to this unusual decision.<p>Three years later, we still feel grateful that we made that choice. Life is good here.<p>A warm welcome from Dunedin, New Zealand.
akg_67超过 11 年前
Very timely article. I am being laid off tomorrow (fri). I sent out this article to my team as sharing my last piece of nugget before I head out the door!<p>I think the question not only applies to a country or city but also the place you work, place you live, or any activity you do.
bsirkia超过 11 年前
Are you there with friends at all? I&#x27;m just curious because for me I always want to be near friends and family, but know that for some people they would rather do something new and exciting.
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loomio超过 11 年前
So glad to hear you&#x27;re feeling at peace in NZ, Derek. I know many people who are quietly excited you&#x27;ve chosen this far flung island to call home and know that you are a fantastic addition to the community no matter what you chose to do. I know you&#x27;ve been inwardly focused lately, but whenever you&#x27;re ready, there&#x27;s a great community waiting to welcome you with open arms at Enspiral (including Loomio of course).
brianwillis超过 11 年前
Apologies for our second-rate internet connections. Hopefully we&#x27;ll see &gt; 5 Mbps download speeds to residential buildings within my lifetime.
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allochthon超过 11 年前
I like the overall message, but I can&#x27;t help but think about that thing about the work visas.
teleclimber超过 11 年前
I am always fond of Derek Sivers&#x27; insights, but I would personally have a hard time getting much done on the South Island. So much natural beauty to explore. I&#x27;d be on a perpetual kayaking&#x2F;tramping&#x2F;skiing trip!
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lmm超过 11 年前
I look at it from the other side - why move? If you&#x27;ve loved everywhere you&#x27;ve lived and you expect to love anywhere else, isn&#x27;t the converse that you&#x27;ll love here just as much as wherever you might move to? Where does this need to travel somewhere every couple of years come from? I&#x27;ve tried it, and realised I&#x27;m better off where I am.
brianbreslin超过 11 年前
I love the idea of getting out of your normal habitat to focus. I went down to central america a month ago to spend a few days, got so much more work done in 3 days than I do in 2 weeks at home. I didn&#x27;t have constant distractions or people pulling for my attention all the time. Am planning to do something like this quarterly in 2014.
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tmault超过 11 年前
What’s really cool about this idea is that it passes boundary tests - asking questions like &quot;What if all of humanity acted like this?”<p>If the whole planet was a little more conscious - and able - to sort themselves into a fitting situation, the ‘system’ as a whole would churn out awesome results.
TheSOB888超过 11 年前
I suspect this won&#x27;t be popular, but: Lucky you, Derek. You have the resources, and more important, the experience to be able to do that sort of thing.<p>Why am I in the US? Because I was born here.<p>(But people are friendlier in other countries, and life is less stressful.)<p>But I don&#x27;t have the resources to just fly away.<p>(...Oh. Right.)
lutorm超过 11 年前
Having just moved from LA to the Big Island of Hawaii, these questions resonate with me, too. We moved because of my wife, but I can&#x27;t say that I was opposed. Away from the crowded, paved LA basin to a small town, affordable housing, friendly people.<p>The internet, though...
decentrality超过 11 年前
Sound thinking, re-asking a question whose answer changes over life. Without complete attachment to your chief focus there is no reason to keep up a previous life.
adamzerner超过 11 年前
That was brilliant. Said something important. Got the message across clearly. Did it quickly.<p>It may have seemed pretty trivial, but I think it was brilliant.
pjdorrell超过 11 年前
Well-known internet entrepreneur and blogger moves to Nelson. Illustrates article with photo from Fiordland. <a href="https://maps.google.com/maps?saddr=+nelson+south+island&amp;daddr=mitre+peak+fiordland+south+island&amp;hl=en&amp;ll=-42.90816,170.617676&amp;spn=7.523587,16.193848&amp;sll=-44.680141,168.010239&amp;sspn=0.22825,0.506058&amp;geocode=%3BFQvzVv0dEDABCikvJaHAFODVqTGpmM8oiQqi5A&amp;mra=ls&amp;t=m&amp;z=7" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;maps.google.com&#x2F;maps?saddr=+nelson+south+island&amp;dadd...</a>
MyNameIsMK超过 11 年前
I once emailed Derek. He went out of his way to answer my questions. I can vouch for his character. Legit dude. Much respect.
dsowers超过 11 年前
You chose a really nice place to move to. I&#x27;m jealous. Be sure to visit Abel Tasman national park.
tahoecoder超过 11 年前
Go to French Pass on the northern tip of the south island. It&#x27;s a beautiful and remote spot.
linux_devil超过 11 年前
Am I the only one who thinks Matrix can be a reality and answer to all similar questions
rajbala超过 11 年前
Singapore: a democratically elected government with autocratic rule.
pikachu_is_cool超过 11 年前
....Yeah, I can&#x27;t do that. I like long-term friendship.
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CurtMonash超过 11 年前
Who are you? What do you want?<p>&#x2F;babylon5
russellhealy超过 11 年前
A very warm welcome!
benched超过 11 年前
I don&#x27;t ask this too hard, because not only do I know ahead of time that I probably won&#x27;t like the answer too much, I don&#x27;t have much reason to suppose I&#x27;ll get it &#x27;right&#x27; next time, either. Without any one all-consuming passion in life, the best I can do is change stuff and see what happens. Also, it&#x27;s unclear what Mr. Sivers&#x27; financial independence status is, but I think that for most of us, wherever we go basically has to be for a job.
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notastartup超过 11 年前
Such a simple question, yet grants you profound introspection.