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Public speaking is tough

371 点作者 FredericJ超过 11 年前

39 条评论

nostromo超过 11 年前
Here&#x27;s two pieces of public speaking advice nobody will tell you about, but actually work.<p>1) Beta-blockers. Ask your doctor.<p>2) Alcohol. Obviously, be careful with this. :) But having a drink really will take the edge off. This works better when giving a toast as a best man than it does at work. It could probably work at a conference too.<p>Other than this, for a big talk or pitch, I just practice until I&#x27;m blue in the face, then I practice some more. If you experience a fight or flight response, your brain cannot think straight, but you can fall back on something that has become rote long enough for you to regain your footing.<p>After 30 seconds or so, your body will start to calm down, you just have to make it through that 30 seconds without pulling a Michael Bay. <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_tqRyzTvNKE" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=_tqRyzTvNKE</a><p>Ask HN: I was thinking the other day, someone should make an Oculus Rift app that is just a giant conference room of people staring at you. People with stage fright could use this to practice public speaking and hopefully improve.
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beloch超过 11 年前
Everyone probably has some good advice for public speaking. Here&#x27;s my #1 piece:<p><i>Slow the fuck down!</i><p>You don&#x27;t &quot;win&quot; at public speaking by getting more words in. In fact, you&#x27;ll likely lose your audience by going a mile a minute. It makes perfect sense, but it&#x27;s still <i>hard</i> to do. You can practice your talk in private a hundred times and it&#x27;ll be X minutes. You can present your talk to colleagues and co-workers and it&#x27;ll be X minutes. Then, when you get in front of a room full of strangers, the adrenaline will hit, you&#x27;ll go into manic-caffeine-squirrel mode, and you&#x27;ll blast it out in X&#x2F;2 minutes! Some people deliberately make their talks too long, knowing they&#x27;ll finish early if they don&#x27;t. This is a mistake. They&#x27;re just cramming too much material into the time allowed and will shell-shock their audience. Slow the fuck down!<p>The method by which you slow the fuck down is going to be somewhat personal. Different things work for different people. Personally, I do a lot better if I&#x27;ve gotten to know even just a few people in the room a tiny bit. If I can get a few people (hopefully in the front row) into the colleague-zone, I can focus on them during the talk and ignore the strangers.
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hawkharris超过 11 年前
Public speaking became much easier to me once I recognized that all good speeches follow a concrete formula.<p>It&#x27;s kind of like writing. You wouldn&#x27;t pick up a pen and start scribbling a lengthy essay without considering its structure.<p>Similarly, effective public speakers follow a pattern — not necessarily the same formula, but a formula. For example, Bill Clinton likes to...<p>1) Begin with a personal, visual anecdote about a specific person or small group. (e.g. A family walking miles to collect water.)<p>2) Relate the small example to broader theme. (e.g. Poverty is a big problem.)<p>3) Weaving that broader concept into the theme of the speech.<p>Another thing to remember is that while speeches share a structure with writing, they are not written articles. The biggest difference, I think, is that people are not capable of processing as much information.<p>While repeating yourself in a written piece is often bad form, most public speakers repeat key phrases to keep the audience focused. Listening is usually harder than sitting down to read.
bane超过 11 年前
I&#x27;m a so-so to &quot;good&quot; public speaker. I used to be a terrible public speaker. I&#x27;ll probably never be a great orator or Steve Jobs, but I&#x27;m pretty happy with my presentation skills. In group settings, I&#x27;m often the one chosen to give the public presentation.<p>Some things that improved me:<p>1) My university undergrad CS program required a semester of public speaking. <i>Everybody</i> hated it. It&#x27;s probably one of the top 3 most important classes I took. If you&#x27;re in a school that doesn&#x27;t require it, take it as an elective.<p>2) I had a teaching job for a few years. Getting points across day in and day out, and trying to drag a class along of people at very different learning speeds teaches you very quickly how to project and enunciate so people can hear you well. Watching the faces of, and talking to, the people in the back rows becomes a very important speaking tool.<p>3) To deal with stage fright, I learned to mentally &quot;not care&quot; about giving the talk. It&#x27;s hard to explain, it doesn&#x27;t mean &quot;not caring about doing a good job&quot;, it just means to adopt a viewpoint of detached apathy. Before I learned how to do this, even small stumbles would send me into a panic state which only made it worse ending with an avalanche of stutters and tied tongues. Detached apathy turns those little stumbles into such unimportant things that I don&#x27;t even know they happened until I listen to a recording of my talk or see myself in a presentation.<p>4) Practice your speech. Because it&#x27;s important to look up every once in a while in order to project. Practicing your speech helps you do that, instead of looking down into your note cards or your script. I don&#x27;t practice it relentlessly like Steve Jobs or President Obama. 2 or 3 runs through is usually good enough for most of my purposes. But it helps you keep your focus on not caring.<p>5) Practice giving speeches. I haven&#x27;t done it, but I&#x27;ve heard lots of good things about Oration societies like Toastmasters. In my case I got plenty of practice while teaching. But for those people who don&#x27;t have that option, this is a great option. Nothing gets you used to the routine of giving speeches like giving speeches.
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ctdonath超过 11 年前
As an introvert, I have no problem talking in front of a large group. I thrive on one-on-one conversations where each person has an opportunity to talk thru long complex interesting thoughts without interruption. Speaking in front of a large group is exactly that: I get to talk at length on a favorite topic, at whatever level of detail I choose, to someone who is interested in what I&#x27;m saying and will not interrupt; that I&#x27;m doing this with 10,000 individuals at once is just being efficient about it.<p>Helps that I&#x27;ve decided that if I&#x27;m going to be wrong, I&#x27;m going to be <i>definitively</i> wrong.
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EliRivers超过 11 年前
As someone in your audience, I beg you, please do not tell me what you&#x27;re going to tell me, then tell me, then tell me what you just told me.
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julienchastang超过 11 年前
Public speaking has caused a great deal of distress, panic, and anxiety for me in the past. To remedy this situation, I joined a local Toastmasters club. They are located literally all over the world, and there is probably one in your area. I cannot say enough good things about Toastmasters. Through frequent, repeated public speaking exposure, over time, you become desensitized so you don&#x27;t feel as panicked. And your speaking skills improve as you have to give speeches on a regular basis. I completely disagree with comments that suggest this problem can be solved through drugs or alcohol. I had ONE stiff drink before an important talk, and I completely hated the feeling while I was speaking.
bigd超过 11 年前
I&#x27;ve a talk in 30&#x27;.<p>Another suggestion should be &quot;do not read suggestions on how to do talks right before giving one&quot;.<p>after a life in academia, what I usually suggest is: like your topic, keep it easy, and reharse, reharse, reharse.
anildigital超过 11 年前
Here is related post by Zach <a href="http://zachholman.com/posts/github-speaking-culture" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;zachholman.com&#x2F;posts&#x2F;github-speaking-culture</a>
yodsanklai超过 11 年前
I used to be really scared when i had to give &quot;important&quot; talks, especially in English which isn&#x27;t my native language. I was so anxious that I couldn&#x27;t even work the days before. I remember my first professional talk. My mouth was so dry that talking was difficult. (tip to beginners: take a bottle of water).<p>Interestingly, I had much less problems when I was presenting somebody else&#x27;s work.<p>The thing that really helped me was benzodiazepines (e.g. Xanax). I took them a few days before until the day of the talk and I felt much much better. I know these drugs get a bad press, but in my case, they really helped. The side effets is that they tend to make you sleepy, but it didn&#x27;t really affected me.<p>Now, I&#x27;m certainly not a great speaker, but I don&#x27;t have any problems with public speaking.
drblast超过 11 年前
Don&#x27;t think of it as public speaking, think of it as a performance.<p>You wouldn&#x27;t go try to perform a play without scripting it and memorizing your script first, nor should you do that with your presentation. Once you do that you can ad-lib and it will seem natural. Even the off-the-cuff jokes aren&#x27;t really off-the-cuff.<p>And go twice as slow as you think you should, and pause a lot. When people get nervous they talk faster and don&#x27;t realize it. If you&#x27;re nervous your perception of time will change and small pauses seem like an eternity. Slow down and force yourself to break for five seconds between &quot;paragraphs&quot; and you&#x27;ll be way ahead of most people.
Codhisattva超过 11 年前
Practice at Toastmasters meetings.
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bedhead超过 11 年前
I had never spoken publicly, as in a featured speaker in front of a large gathering of strangers. I had spoken in front of everyone at my old company (80 people) but that was the closest I came to public speaking, and since I knew everyone it didn&#x27;t count. I remember freshman year of high school having my stomach in knots when teachers would call on me. I just had that nervous personality. Want to know how nervous I&#x27;d get in public with everyone&#x27;s attention on me? I almost fainted at my wedding - at the altar. The priest had to cut the ceremony in half to accommodate me. To this day people make fun of me for it (I feel bad for my wife).<p>A couple months ago, I surprisingly got asked to be a speaker at a pretty large and prestigious conference in town. It was at a large venue with over 1,000 attendees, some of whom are important to impress for various reasons. It was a great opportunity so I accepted, knowing that this could be a problem.<p>Anyway, I rehearsed my 10 minute speech ad nauseum, I could do it in my sleep. Every little last verbal tic, joke, everything. I knew I&#x27;d still be nervous. I wanted to be so good that I could do it on autopilot and hopefully be more confident. I got on stage, lights shining brightly, and took a seat as the host read a brief introduction about me. While he was doing this, I was so nervous that I thought I was either going to vomit or faint, or some horrible combination of the two. I was literally telling myself not to puke over and over again. My stomach was tossing and my head was spinning...I could barely breathe.<p>He finishes his intro and I start my talk, visibly nervous. Then a funny thing happened. About 20 seconds in, something clicked and I just thought to myself, &quot;Why are you nervous? You know this stuff <i>cold</i>. You got this.&quot; And wouldn&#x27;t you know it, from there on out I <i>killed</i> it. I dunno, it was weird, I instantly became as relaxed as I am with my friends and delivered a great speech. I had tons of great jokes, kept everyone really engaged, and I think even delivered an interesting idea to the audience. By the time it was over I was actually disappointed it was over since I was having so much fun. I got tons of superlative-filled compliments afterwards and was really in shock about it all.<p>I dont know what the moral is. Just have fun I guess. Know what you&#x27;re talking about and the rest will sort itself out.
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wturner超过 11 年前
The easiest way to speak publicly is to actually believe in what you&#x27;re doing and talking about. The audience then becomes kind of like an omnipresent pressure that keeps you going.<p>If you aren&#x27;t &#x27;locked into&#x27; what your talking about then nothing will save you. I know from personal experience.<p>I also heard a talk that if you imagine the audience as &#x27;prey&#x27; such as small rabbits or chickens then it becomes easier as it takes power away from the flight or fight aspect.
treenyc超过 11 年前
I have enzyme issue with Alcohol, but I believe that is a nice trick.<p>From personal experience, and from someone who had tremendous problem with public speaking to someone who performed very well at a toast master event in NYC without any preparation. I can say quite a few things on the subject.<p>One thing is for sure. We are all afraid of other people. No matter who we are. It is just that fear get expressed in different ways. Some people are being shy and passive, while some are being aggressive and over-confident. Until we discover who we really are. Using tricks (power point) and strategies (drink alcohol&#x2F;weed) will not take us far.<p>What made the most difference in my process is some ontological training like this leadership course. The course doesn&#x27;t really say that it will help you with public speaking. Just that you will leave the course<p>&quot;Being a Leader and Exercise Leadership Effectively as your own natural Self-Expression&quot;<p>Nothing more, nothing less.<p>However, the course has nice side-effects, like public speaking.<p>The course is NOT cheap, but I consider it worth more than my college degree. Next one is at Singapore. FYI, I have no financial tight to the course or University.<p><a href="http://beingaleader-singapore.com" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;beingaleader-singapore.com</a>
pmiller2超过 11 年前
Between grad school (teaching, seminar talks, etc) and other occasions, I&#x27;ve spoken in front of groups of 3-300 people hundreds of times. I have no idea if I&#x27;m all that good at it, but at least I&#x27;m comfortable with it. :-)<p>The biggest trick for me is realizing that talking in front of a group is different from talking to one person, but talking in front of a small group is not that different from talking in front of a medium or large group. Under 5 or so people is still pretty much an intimate&#x2F;conversational atmosphere in my experience, but going from 5 or 10 up to 50, 100, or 300 is pretty much all the same. The only real difference is the amount and type of projection equipment involved.<p>Depending on the specific scenario, there are other things I try to keep in mind (e.g. I found that between 0.5 and 1.5 slides per minute worked well for a seminar talk in grad school), but abstracting away the size of the audience in my mind is the one that&#x27;s paid me the biggest returns in reduced anxiety. Now if I just had a way to make sure the A&#x2F;V equipment always worked, I could make a crapload of money. ;)
chops超过 11 年前
I&#x27;ve given a handful of talks at miscellaneous user groups ranging from 5 minute lightning demos to one way-too-long-but-there-is-too-much-to-cover-in-45-minutes talk about Erlang types (I felt bad it was so long).<p>While I&#x27;m the last guy to walk up to a stranger and strike up a conversation, and I break out in cold sweats preparing to cold-call prospects for my business, I&#x27;ve always had this thing about public performing, whether it be speaking, playing and instrument, or even (gasp) <i>singing</i>.<p>I&#x27;m not sure of the psychology of it all, but it feels like the pressure of presenting, combined with a strong fear of being viewed a failure gives way to a certain comfort zone in presenting. And once up there for a minute or two, I notice that I quickly find myself firing on all cylinders (probably from the adrenaline), and then everything from then on becomes quite natural for me (even if my natural presentation style comes across a little neurotic).<p>Anyway, that&#x27;s my anecdotal contribution to the public speaking discussion.
eflowers超过 11 年前
What I&#x27;ve learned is that 20 minutes in, you&#x27;re hour is up.
aniketpant超过 11 年前
Nobody mentioned Speak Up. It&#x27;s a wonderful community of people where everyone helps each other out in planning and preparing for talks. It&#x27;s been slightly inactive recently, but every mail gets an assured response.<p>Link: <a href="http://speakup.io/" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;speakup.io&#x2F;</a>
gumby超过 11 年前
To me there are different scales of public speaking or presenting.<p>I actually have no problem presenting to 500 people (the largest audience I&#x27;ve had): I just talk, and try to make some eye contact. There are always a few friendly faces.<p>Presenting to up to a dozen people is no problem for me: I can adapt (speed up &#x2F; slow down, skip over stuff, dive deep, repeat, whatever) depending on how the people react.<p>But there&#x27;s an excluded valley of somewhere between one and three dozen. I feel weird just presenting as I would to 500 people, yet it&#x27;s too big to get the intimate preso treatment. When I have presented to a group this size it has almost always fallen flat.
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re_todd超过 11 年前
I went to a doctor, and he gave me beta blockers, which helped a lot.<p>Another thing that helped is reading forums like this where many people admit how nervous they are. In speech class, everyone seemed to do relatively well, so I was under the impression that I was the only person in the world that gets nervous during a speech. Just knowing that other people get nervous has helped me handle it better.<p>You can also take your contacts out or glasses off so you cannot see people clearly, which also helps a little.<p>I&#x27;ve also noticed that my anxiety attacks usually happen before the speech, not usually during it, and they only last a few minutes. Knowing that they will not last forever has also helped me.
alan_cx超过 11 年前
I assume there are different reasons for people fearing public speaking. But, FWIW, my thing is to really and fully know the subject you are talking about. For me, the nervousness comes from the fear of being found out in some way. So, I find that if I know my subject, Im quite happy to waffle on to who ever wants to listen, but if I know or think the audience might know more than me and be able to some how show me up to be some sort of fraud, Im a bag of nerves.<p>I dont know if that works for anyone else, but my theory is that the nerves come for the fear of somehow looking a fool, and that becomes less likely the more you know about what you are talking about.
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pessimizer超过 11 年前
Public speaking terrifies me. I seem to do alright if I follow five rules:<p>1. Don&#x27;t bail and run out of the room screaming.<p>2. Don&#x27;t ramble. Don&#x27;t leave your outline for an anecdote or further explanation - trust your outline to be good. If you have to meander because you did your outline at the last minute and you know it kinda sucks, if you then meander while meandering, you&#x27;ve lost the game and no one remembers what you were talking about.<p>3. Don&#x27;t &quot;umm,&quot; &quot;right,&quot; or &quot;ok.&quot; before and after anything you say.<p>4. Don&#x27;t laugh at your own jokes (at least don&#x27;t do it before you finish getting them out.)<p>5. Remember that you don&#x27;t look as nervous as you feel.
Theodores超过 11 年前
Just wing it. <i>Seriously.</i><p>Why is it that so few schools teach children how to speak in public?<p>It is not difficult, all you need is a debating society.<p>I am fortunate enough to have gone to a school where the debating society was <i>the</i> thing to do. Even on a cold winter with snow outside two hundred or so of the thousand at the school would show up, of their own accord and without anyone telling they had to go. To be voted by your peers onto the committee for the debating society was the ultimate in status. Our debating society made public speaking a fun thing to do.<p>As well as being able to propose&#x2F;oppose a motion from the stage with a self-prepared speech it was also possible to learn how to listen, ask questions from the floor and respond to points made.<p>So, when I left school, I had a head start. I had spoken in front of a crowd on two hundred or so occasions from a very safe sandbox. In my adult life this experience has been invaluable. I know about what happens if one is not totally prepared. I know what happens if one is over prepared - i.e. reading instead of talking. I know about posture and how to make meaningful eye contact with a sea of faces. However, most importantly, I knew that public speaking was a desirable thing to do, a privilege.<p>If anyone reading this has kids and their kids are not involved in a school debating society, think about it. Get together with the school and a few teachers and sell them the idea of a debating society. Get someone charismatic - a head teacher who has to present in front of all the kids - to make the debating society the most important thing he&#x2F;she does. Your local posh school will have a debating society, visit them, learn how they do it and steal their procedures and organisational structure.<p>Then, if you are lucky and the school debating society kicks off and becomes <i>the</i> thing to do, your child should grow up to be a darned good public speaker. What they will learn from that will help them no end. If they also end up knowing a subject inside and out at some stage of their adult life they should be able to literally wing it without having to use any of the silly suggestions presented on this thread (betablockers - you must be kidding!!!).
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jccalhoun超过 11 年前
As someone that has and is teaching public speaking my number one tip: sound like you care.<p>I can&#x27;t tell you how many terrible speeches I&#x27;ve sat through where the person was saying &quot;this is really important and means the world to me&quot; but sounded like they didn&#x27;t care at all.<p>Number two: don&#x27;t write out ever word of your speech. It is public speaking not public reading. Being able to read a text out loud without sounding like you are reading is a skill and you should learn to speak from notes&#x2F;outlines first because that is easier to sound like you are talking with us rather than at us.
AhtiK超过 11 年前
Exhale as deeply as possible and keep it this way as long as you can. After that breathing restores with first few rapid big inhales. Restarting your breathing this way is also restarting your brain in a way so the thinking becomes calm. Works every time.<p>Another tip is to eat 1-2 bananas half an hour before the event and maybe a glass of fresh orange juice. Banana works as a natural beta blocker reducing anxiety. While on stage, plain water, no juices..
hakanson超过 11 年前
Where can I submit a pull request to remove the F-word from these otherwise great tips, or do I need to fork. One could consider &quot;dropping the F-Bomb&quot; against many conferences code of conduct pertaining to &quot;harassment includes offensive verbal comments.&quot; Also, as we try and mentor more youth to code, including school age girls, is this the persona we ware marketing?
peteri超过 11 年前
For talks to user groups where I&#x27;m generating new slide decks and demos one piece of advice I was given was reckon on around 1 hour of prep for each minute of speaking time. The successful stuff that I&#x27;ve done seemed to match this.<p>Also for a one hour time slot you&#x27;ll probably actually want around 40 minutes of material allowing time for introductions and a Q&amp;A session at the end.
ismaelc超过 11 年前
If you have something exciting to talk about, public speaking is not such a chore (a joy in fact). The challenge is having content that&#x27;s easy to make exciting.<p>If that&#x27;s not possible for you, then try to get excited of the fact that you&#x27;re out there to excite the hell out of something mundane. Surprise your audience.<p>Being in that state of mind alone should knock out the jitters.
cmbaus超过 11 年前
Here are couple ideas I&#x27;ve written on the topic: <a href="http://baus.net/i-don%27t-like-public-speaking/" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;baus.net&#x2F;i-don%27t-like-public-speaking&#x2F;</a><p>I did quite a bit of public speaking in the past couple years and it gets easier over time. I think the best advice is prepare, prepare, prepare.
mebassett超过 11 年前
Say someone is a mediocre-to-decent public speaker already. How does one &quot;level up&quot; to be a really great public speaker? I&#x27;ve thought about a speech coach or class, but I don&#x27;t know anyone who has had any success with this who could recommend where to find a good one.
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chaz超过 11 年前
Plant your feet and square your shoulders to the audience. Walking around is ok, too. But slouching and shifting your weight from left to right can hurt your confidence as well as hurt the way your confidence is projected. You&#x27;ll develop your own more natural style over time.
janogonzalez超过 11 年前
Shameless plug, here it is my own advice regarding conference speaking: <a href="http://janogonzalez.com/2013/12/02/conference-speaking-how-to.html" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;janogonzalez.com&#x2F;2013&#x2F;12&#x2F;02&#x2F;conference-speaking-how-t...</a>
city41超过 11 年前
<i>blatant plug:</i> I&#x27;m working on a website aimed at increasing social skills and one &quot;track&quot; of the site will be for improving public speaking -- <a href="http://metamorf.us" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;metamorf.us</a>
reuven超过 11 年前
I have been speaking professionally for a number of years now. In a given week, I&#x27;m probably speaking 2-4 full days (minus lunch and breaks), teaching various programming languages and technologies. I also give talks at conferences and user group meetings.<p>I remember very, very well when I had to give a talk oh-so-many years ago, while doing a student internship at HP. I flubbed it big time, and left the room saying to myself and anyone who would listen that I disliked public speaking, and was bad at it.<p>I&#x27;m not quite sure when things changed, but I think that it had a lot to do with my attitude. Instead of worrying about whether people would like me or believe me, I instead concentrated on trying to teach people something they didn&#x27;t already know, and have a good time in the process.<p>If I&#x27;m enjoying myself while speaking, then the odds are good that the people in the audience are enjoying themselves, too.<p>If I&#x27;ve learned something interesting, then the odds are also good that the people in the audience will find it interesting, too, and will be glad that I&#x27;m sharing it with them.<p>Again, I&#x27;m not sure when my attitude changed, but when I get up in front of an audience now, I feel like I&#x27;m there to have a good time. Of course, I don&#x27;t want to flub things, and there are times when I worry about that more than others. But for the most part, it&#x27;s a matter of thinking, &quot;Hey, everyone here has the same goal -- to enjoy themselves and learn something.&quot;<p>As others have written, your enjoyment will be enhanced significantly if you prepare. I&#x27;d even say to over-prepare. You probably need to know twice as much as you will actually say in your talk, so that you can speak naturally and reasonably about the subject. Try to outline your talk as a story, with a beginning, middle, and end. In technical talks, the story will often be something like, &quot;Here&#x27;s a problem. Here&#x27;s a solution. Here are some examples of the solution in use. Here&#x27;s where the solution fails. Questions?&quot;<p>Don&#x27;t worry about your slides too much. Yes, they should be high contrast. Yes, they should be easy to read. But I think that people worry way way way too much about colors, fonts, and images, and not enough about the actual SPEAKING. You want people to be engaged with what you&#x27;re saying, not with what&#x27;s on your slides... and that&#x27;s going to happen if you have interesting things to say.<p>Above all, be yourself. There are oh-so-many examples (in real life, and also in movies and on TV) where people are told that they should open with a joke, and so they tell a ridiculous joke that no one finds funny, including the presenter. If you&#x27;re naturally funny, or are willing to have people not laugh at your jokes, then go for it. If you&#x27;re a serious kind of person, then be serious. (Although it&#x27;s always better if you can be somewhat silly, in my book.)
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Kerrick超过 11 年前
Another great resource: We Are All Awesome! <a href="http://weareallaweso.me/" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;weareallaweso.me&#x2F;</a>
gre超过 11 年前
Tell them what you are about to tell them, tell them, tell them what you told them.
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saurik超过 11 年前
To some extent the point I want to make I&#x27;d similar to the one made by reuven elsewhere in this thread, but I think it is still different (and maybe shorter? we&#x27;ll see ;P) enough to still post. (OK, after writing, this failed at my goal of being shorter ;P.)<p>So, I also do a lot of conference speaking, albeit nowhere near as much as reuven. I remember in high school, public speaking was terrifying. By the end of college, I was giving one of the graduation speeches.<p>The difference was not me becoming better at making arguments or telling stories or being prepared or building slides or really anything about what I said on stage: the difference is that I felt at home there.<p>In essence, I had the fear of public speaking that many, if not most, people have. This fear is mostly about people watching you and judging you. You are concerned about where they are looking and what you are doing: it paralyzes you.<p>It had very little, however, to do with what you are doing in front of everyone: you could be on stage being told &quot;eat breakfast as you would on a normal day&quot; or simply a lunch meeting where you are standing due to lack of chairs while everyone else is sitting.<p>I don&#x27;t feel, therefore, like helping people present is the solution. I will say that it might try to ease the person&#x27;s anxiety enough to consider doing it once, but that isn&#x27;t why they are afraid: I am not afraid of bungee jumping because I think I&#x27;m going to die due to the cord breaking, I&#x27;m afraid of bungee jumping because even looking at a photograph taken from a high-up location makes me curl into a ball.<p>These fears can be so bad that they aren&#x27;t obviously fixable (phobia-level fears can be like that). In my case, I likely have acrophobia (heights), but as something of a &quot;class clown&quot; when I was much much younger, I can&#x27;t ever claim to have had glossophobia (public speaking). My fear was mild, and I tackled it.<p>I want to be very clear, though, that there is a difference between &quot;preparation&quot; and &quot;lack of fear&quot;: if you told me to go stand on stage right now in front of a thousand people, I&#x27;d be happy to do that. I would be willing to try to entertain them. I might fail, but I don&#x27;t mind anymore.<p>I might thereby recommend more doing something structured that tales away all of the &quot;things you can do wrong&quot; variables entirely before bothering with trying to prepare those away: take an acting class. You are told exactly what to say, you have a director guiding your movements, and on the show day a perfect performance can be identical to the previous day. You don&#x27;t have to worry if what you are saying sounds stupid: you have no choice in what to say.<p>(That said, I wouldn&#x27;t &quot;recommend&quot; it strongly, as I think a lot of these shortcuts in hindsight by people who have defeated something others find hard are missing the point of what made it work for them: that you probably just need to be doing it, constantly, for long enough, to make it easy. This is similar to the &quot;monad tutorial fallacy&quot; in my mind.)<p>Then, when your fear of being in front of people is gone, maybe the preparation isn&#x27;t even that big of a deal: if you are comfortable, the audience will be comfortable, and you can &quot;get away with&quot; a lot more on stage.<p>I mean, preparation is great, but &quot;public speaking is tough&quot; is not because &quot;writing slides is tough&quot; or &quot;answering questions is tough&quot;, it&#x27;s simply tough because &quot;public anything is tough&quot;... you answer questions every day in the hallway: you don&#x27;t need more preparation to do that on stage, you just need less fear (which again: isn&#x27;t easy).
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crimsonalucard超过 11 年前
The only way a phobia can be conquered, if it can be conquered at all, is through repeated exposure.