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Ask HN: How do you deal with inferiority complex?

16 点作者 septerr大约 11 年前
Specifically to do with skills in programming/designing. I haven't had chance to work much with frontend development and when I see people create beautiful apps/sites, I feel pretty inferior!

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vijucat大约 11 年前
Assuming that it&#x27;s not just the usual case that you are just starting off, and they have been doing it for years, maybe even decades, assuming that it&#x27;s a fair apples to apples comparison, and that they actually are superior, do yourself a favour and don&#x27;t listen to the other advice about it being a &quot;syndrome&quot; (impostor syndrome or otherwise) or some &quot;principle&quot; : own that feeling. Try saying, &quot;Damn, these people are good. And I&#x27;m nowhere close to them, not even in the same league&quot;.<p>Trust me : acknowledging reality is so, so therapeutic and relaxing that it is a strength by itself. Your anxious mind, previously beset with envy, will suddenly calm down and <i>be able</i> to move on. You will be able to take a deep breath. And then the magic happens : there is an immediate and concentrated focus on the current moment, the reality of being who you are, wherever you are, accepted by every cell of your body. You are <i>so aware</i> of the present moment. In this calm state of assessment, you are already beyond your past feelings of weakness and...and what happens depends, but for me, most of the time, I end up being able to figure out where I can excel and be happy. I am able to ask the Real Questions.<p>While this may sound like a motivational seminar or even a religious one, the reason why it is so generic is that I cannot know what happens after you accept that they are better. I cannot know what exact magic happens. But avoiding the feelings, suppression, is where the problems lie. With psychological suppression, the anxiety never ends. With psychological integration, calmness and health prevail.<p>Us engineers are really bad at this stuff (low EQ), hence so many answers fit the template of avoidance and suppression or worse, false motivation : &quot;you can do it! keep trying!&quot;. How do these people know you can? Maybe you suck. You need not conclude that, but you should consider that. May reality be with you!
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wturner大约 11 年前
Your strengths and weaknesses have curves, troughs, peaks and spaghetti complexity. Personally I completely accept that I&#x27;m pretty mediocre as a &quot;developer&quot;, but honestly I don&#x27;t really care because I don&#x27;t personally consider myself a developer, I just look at myself as someone who simply likes to explore, learn and play with web based technologies. This way I don&#x27;t get sucked into the pigeon hole psychology of the professional world. If someone else wants to look at me in that light that&#x27;s fine , but I keep an invisible boundary between myself and that kind of thing. I also like to occasionally and inadvertently ask inane questions at stackoverflow which get down voted at machine gun intervals. It&#x27;s good for the &#x27;soul&#x27;.<p>I have a mentor that has been programming since the 70&#x27;s , I once lived in a place where an extremely smart Belgian software engineer was staying who helped me while programming, and I currently met a really smart engineer near where I live who has been gradually throwing me suggestions coupled with some pseudo mentorship. All of these people are very smart,very empathetic and willing to share. Being around people like that in my view is absolutely needed for your sanity.<p>You&#x27;ve probably seen this video. It&#x27;s the one where Google attempts to explain what a web browser is to random people on the street. Watch it if you haven&#x27;t. It will lend perspective.<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o4MwTvtyrUQ" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.youtube.com&#x2F;watch?v=o4MwTvtyrUQ</a><p>Ok that&#x27;s all.
CmonDev大约 11 年前
&quot;programming&#x2F;designing&quot; - double talented people are extremely rare, so it&#x27;s probably a team - one less reason to feel inferior. Also web front-end programming sucks in comparison with server side, HTML will never be any close to perfection due to compatibility - no code satisfaction, client-side frameworks change every week, JavaScript is shit etc.
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juhanima大约 11 年前
Not being happy with what you have accomplished so far is a sign of greatness. Once you feel you have achieved enough, you become complacent. Do not feel inferior. As long as you feel there is room for improvement, you will keep improving. Only when you start thinking you know it all it&#x27;s time to get worried.
3minus1大约 11 年前
Work with people who know more than you, be humble, and ask questions.
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deeviant大约 11 年前
For me, I turn it into motivation. I check out the code that dazzled me with it&#x27;s brilliance, I go through every line, stop to understand everything, then I ask questions. After that I normally create a home brew project that incorporates the lessons learns and drives them home, and, sometimes, improving on them.<p>Obviously not quite from a design perspective, but it may still be useful.
bluerail大约 11 年前
You shouldn&#x27;t have to.. Just be sure that not everyone knows everything.. If they are good at frontend development and create eye catching site, let them be., What I could do is they can&#x27;t (probably they can if with learning and practice, but not as much as I devote myself into)..<p>Simply : Doctors won&#x27;t write program, Programmers won&#x27;t perform a cesarean..
chops大约 11 年前
It sounds to me, based also on your replies so far, that you just have a case of impostor syndrome (and possibly some Dunning-Kruger thrown in there). Just power through it - we all get it too. Just keep making things that you&#x27;re proud of, or that others find useful, and you be fine. We can&#x27;t all be experts in everything, and even the experts are noobs at somethings.
TotalEclipse大约 11 年前
Once you&#x27;ve worked with enough programmers, you&#x27;ll realise that many programmers don&#x27;t actually know how to... well, program.<p>The great websites &#x2F; open-source projects you see regularly are really just the tall poppies.
loumf大约 11 年前
If by design, you mean what it looks like: You + themeforest == nice looking front-end for your site.<p>But, worry more about Design meaning &quot;how it works&quot;, trade-offs, and what job the end user is trying to get done.
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known大约 11 年前
Sounds like <a href="https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_principle" rel="nofollow">https:&#x2F;&#x2F;en.m.wikipedia.org&#x2F;wiki&#x2F;Peter_principle</a>
staunch大约 11 年前
Those people did a lot of work to gain that level of skill. You could probably be as good if you really worked at it too.
daSn0wie大约 11 年前
it&#x27;s impossible to know everything and do everything. stop comparing yourself to other people and start focusing on what YOU need to accomplish and what YOU can control, which is yourself. If you see something amazing, look at it and learn from it.<p>be inspired instead of intimidated.