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Why I am leaving the best job I ever had

257 点作者 jasondc将近 11 年前

20 条评论

kchoudhu将近 11 年前
At some point, after basic needs are met, every working person is forced to answer the following question with respect to the toll work takes on his or her family: is it worth it?<p>It takes courage to say &quot;no&quot; and make a clean cut. Kudos to this gentleman for doing what his family needs him to do.
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lsc将近 11 年前
I just think it&#x27;s interesting that when I was at a major portal&#x2F;search company, it seemed like one bigwig or another would leave &quot;to spend more time with my family&quot; every month or two. I mean, we were getting our ass kicked; it seemed like every time we got a new head of X, they were going to &quot;turn things around&quot; - so it makes total sense that high-level heads would be rolling when things failed to turn around, but we&#x27;d all roll our eyes when we got these emails.<p>I don&#x27;t want to take away from the validity of spending more time with your family or what have you; I prefer working part-time myself, when I can make it happen.<p>This looks way more sincere and well-written than most such notes; The notes we got at this company usually looked like they were written by an HR person. this reads like the man wrote it himself rather than handing it off to some HR flack, and it certainly <i>feels</i> true. It&#x27;s well written, and after reading it, I think better of him, and really, even if he is being pushed out, there&#x27;s no shame in leaving gracefully.
tootie将近 11 年前
I&#x27;m not a CEO, but a working dad. I find that I have met little resistance when I get up to pick up my kids at 5:30 or refuse travel (video chat is cheaper than airfare). Being constantly connected is really helpful. I have my work email and IM on my phone. I can respond to a message in between dinner and bath time. I don&#x27;t think I&#x27;d ever accept a job that didn&#x27;t let me get away with those things.
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goodcanadian将近 11 年前
Thank you for posting this. I am a relatively new father, and I find myself thinking along similar lines: possibly the best job I have ever had, but if the right opportunity comes along for my wife, I would probably quit and follow her. Unfortunately, for financial and logistical reasons it is not a terribly good idea for me to quit now. Moreover, the possibility of working fewer hours doesn&#x27;t readily exist though short periods of leave without pay is a possibility which I am getting closer to taking.<p>It is frustrating that no one talks about men balancing work and family.
Infinitesimus将近 11 年前
I applaud this decision. It is very easy to get sucked into &quot;Well, I need to do this so I can support my family, etc.&quot; which is by no means a bad idea. After all, every loving parent&#x2F;spouse wants their family to be stable and well provided for.<p>At some point - after your work has paid off and you find yourself in a relatively stable place - it is worth asking that question. Success [in terms of finances, accomplishments, etc.] means nothing if you have no one to share it with[1]. I&#x27;m glad you made the difficult decision to invest in the people you love and care about. Kudos.<p>[1] By that, I&#x27;m not saying we should overlook the impact one&#x27;s &#x27;success&#x27; [ a loosely defined term] has on others. It is always hard to decide between solving a problem - especially one which you are passionate about - and investing in the people you love.
VikingCoder将近 11 年前
TL;DR: Wealthy executive has freedom to choose to not work.
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tomp将近 11 年前
It&#x27;s interesting how the mainstream media keep screaming how sexist geeks are for not &quot;accepting&quot; women, but at the same time totally ignoring each and every issue any member of any not-unprivileged group has. All the while I (a self-professed geek) am wondering how my coworker manages both working 9-7 5days a week and being a dad to his 2weeks old twin daughters...
chris123将近 11 年前
Hopefully we all &quot;always&quot; leave the best job we ever had. For example, the best job I ever had when I was 15 was working at deli. I left that job for my new &quot;best job I ever had,&quot; which was at a nursery and garden center. Etc. Obviously, we can all step &quot;backwards,&quot; too, but generally most people leave the &quot;best job they ever had&quot; most of the time they change jobs. Anyways! I guess I just laid down some downvote and&#x2F;or trolling bait? Just bear in mind that what I wrote was intended to to be positive, uplifting, and forward looking. It&#x27;s all about the journey. There is no &quot;destination.&quot;
remon将近 11 年前
A very brave decision to make, especially given the growth MongoDB is experiencing at the moment.<p>With that said I would like to add that as an early adopter of the technology (read; most of our company&#x27;s software is built with MongoDB as the storage tier) I&#x27;m less than impressed with the technical leadership shown there. In other words, I&#x27;m not overly familiar with Dev Ittycheria and I&#x27;m sure he&#x27;s a capable replacement for Max Schireson but what they really need is a new technical leadership. There are some properly questionable technical decisions being made or postponed that damage the reputation, maturity and usability of their tech.
cdnsteve将近 11 年前
Glad to see such transparency here from another dad. As a father of two we often bite the bullet and sometimes loose track of work&#x2F;life balance. Time with loved ones is the most valuable asset a person can ever have. I&#x27;m sure this story will inspire other&#x27;s to reevaluate their path.<p>I recently changed my working hours from 7-3 so I can pickup my kids from school. This way I get to spend more time with with and not put them in after hours care.<p>What are others doing to get more work&#x2F;life balance?
TheMagicHorsey将近 11 年前
Regardless of what I think about MongoDB the database, this man seems like a good leader based on his honesty. Showing this much vulnerability in public isn&#x27;t something CEOs usually do without a public scandal.<p>I&#x27;m curious if this guy is a professional manager or grew into this role as a founder. Because this sort of communication doesn&#x27;t strike me as the sort of thing that would come out of the keyboard of an MBA or career manager.
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piratebroadcast将近 11 年前
Good on this guy. Enjoy your family and your life, mate.
aceperry将近 11 年前
Amazing post from someone who&#x27;s done amazing things and has an amazing life. He&#x27;s also done a great job of highlighting the different expectations and demands between men and women in the workplace. This reminds me of someone else who changed directions in life but received a surprisingly large amount of criticism. (<a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ellen-huerta/why-i-left-google_b_3795140.html" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;www.huffingtonpost.com&#x2F;ellen-huerta&#x2F;why-i-left-google...</a>) I have the suspicion that Schireson will not get the same amount of criticism that Huerta received when she wrote her article. But in any case, it will be interesting to see how Schireson&#x27;s post will be received.
illini123将近 11 年前
As the son of a mother who gave up her full-time (and lucrative) career to raise her kids, I applaud you for having the courage to speak out on this. Witnessing how cousins of mine turned out (one parent was CEO of a major international firm, the other an accomplished investor), I will always remain indebted to my parents for making the choices they did.<p>Both women and men can have it all, but not everything at the same time. Best of luck in your new roles at MongoDB and with your family.
seestheday将近 11 年前
I&#x27;m not saying that this is happening here, but isn&#x27;t the standard line when a c level is pushed out that they are leaving to spend more time with their family?<p>I actually believe max here.
leothekim将近 11 年前
Arguably, he&#x27;s leaving <i>for</i> the best job he&#x27;s ever had. Congratulations and best of luck to you, Max! I&#x27;m happy for (and just a bit jealous of) you.
mathattack将近 11 年前
Good for him. Once you realize that it&#x27;s not worth it any more, better to hand over the reigns quickly rather than sit on it indefinitely.
woodchuck64将近 11 年前
I predict a society where men, women, couples work until age 60-70 and then retire and have children (assuming medical advances).
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nathan_f77将近 11 年前
This is really impressive.
kghose将近 11 年前
Does Dev have kids?
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