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Being deaf is: constant baseline soundmaking anxiety

96 点作者 blackhole超过 10 年前

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veb超过 10 年前
This article hits home for me. I was born with a severe hearing loss, and I have recently got a Med-EL Opus2 &#x2F; RONDO Cochlear Implant -- which changed my life for the better.<p>How?<p>It reduced so much stress, I was surprised that I was carrying so much. It was simply things like going to the toilet (you think, &quot;am I going to make a really awful rude noise that everyone will hate me for?&quot;) or drinking your coffee (&quot;is this awful?!&quot;)... even typing at work, or taking to a colleague and hoping that I wasn&#x27;t interrupting someone else.<p>Then I realised: everyone else is simply bloody loud, they generally don&#x27;t care about how loud they are when they&#x27;re eating, shutting doors or chatting to someone. They don&#x27;t. Only I did, I was the only one who constantly worried.<p>It wasn&#x27;t the fact that I could suddenly hear things, which I could, it was realising that I was overthinking, overanalysing every situation with that sound was involved. That included _breathing_. I would literally slow my breathing if someone were to sit next to me on a bus. Severe anxiety due to sound.<p>I&#x27;m still very anxious if I am to watch a movie, in my own house, by myself... in fear I&#x27;d wake the neighbours on an adjourned property. (to put this in perspective, my wife came home and she couldn&#x27;t even hear the movie in the next bedroom.)<p>THIS was seriously the hardest thong I&#x27;ve had to face but it&#x27;s been worth it for the reduced stress and anxiety.<p>Thanks for posting this!
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jmillikin超过 10 年前
Related: &quot;Dorm of the Deaf&quot; <a href="http://dustinland.com/archives/archives319.html" rel="nofollow">http:&#x2F;&#x2F;dustinland.com&#x2F;archives&#x2F;archives319.html</a><p><pre><code> &gt; When the world around you doesn’t give you feedback, &gt; and the best gauge you have of your own noise level is &gt; frustration on the faces of the people near you </code></pre> People laugh at HN suggesting technical solutions to every problem, but this really does seem like something that could be solved (or at least mitigated) by a microphone, some small LEDs, and a gutted wristwatch. Light up more LEDs depending on how loud the sound is relative to the average level of the previous N seconds of recorded audio.<p>A web search for [wrist sound sensor] didn&#x27;t find anything relevant, but this is probably because I don&#x27;t know what such a device would be named.<p>edit: Following the trackback at the bottom reveals the author is a hardware hacker. I wonder if she has tried to build such a device -- if not, maybe it&#x27;s much more complicated than it seems.
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tempestn超过 10 年前
Great post. I had <i>never</i> considered that aspect of deafness, but it&#x27;s so obvious in retrospect. Thanks.
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shard超过 10 年前
I remember reading this article about a person who had no sense of smell, and how they had to always make sure that they have no BO, have to worry about not being able to smell gas or rotten food, and various other things that the rest of us didn&#x27;t have to struggle with. It&#x27;s these subtle things that makes the lack of a sense more challenging than one would expect from the common perception of these disabilities.
stsp超过 10 年前
My dad has very bad hearing, and can be quite noisy sometimes to the point of being annoying. I remember complaining to him about this occasionally. I never considered he might be worried about annoying others, and may be trying to hide his anxiety on top of that. I&#x27;ll have to ask him. Thanks Mel.
eknkc超过 10 年前
Smart watches can be valuable for things like this I guess.<p>Something like having an app on iPhone monitoring the mic, showing a gauge or vibrating at a threshold on the Apple Watch (might be easier on Android). Would be useful feedback. Are there any apps &#x2F; devices for such purposes on the market?
afarrell超过 10 年前
This sounds similar to the sort of social anxiety I&#x27;ve felt around trying to figure out how to avoid creeping people out.
robgibbons超过 10 年前
Very, very interesting. This gave me some useful perspective, also the post about the Basketball player (interrupt-driven).