I got a friend recommendation from Facebook that has me worried about how intrusive it is.
This is a person with whom I have NO mutual friends. I only know him because our kids attend swim lessons at the same time (along with 30 other kids). Here is the kicker though, I have not communicated with him using any digital source. We only talk when we meet and have just exchanged phone numbers once but never called each other. I don't know his email/twitter/LinkedIn/Facebook details and he does not know mine.<p>So here is my question - how does Facebook figure out that I have interacted with him? Sure, we both pay for the swim lessons with a credit card so they can parse through that and figure out that we pay for the same activity. But then why is he the only one on the recommended friend list? Why isn't another parent (who I don't interact with that much) also on there?<p>Any thoughts?
Geo-tagging.<p>If you both updated your status, or used facebook messenger from the same location multiple times. Facebook assumes you either met, or know each other. Since you attend the same place at the same time.<p>Stuff like this is why I deleted facebook. If I wanted to know these people I would add these people, I don't need suggests based on literally spying on my day to day activities.
As Tomtoise said, they indeed read your address book. Even if you do not use the messenger app Whatsapp. You have given permission to let them read your whole phone (sms, address book and even to make changes in your calendar without your consent), by installing it. That is the main reason why many people do not install the Facebook app, but only use it via a browser.
Facebook app synchronizes with your address book.
My best guess is that you've left facebook sync on and forgotten about it, added his number.
Facebook has looked up that number, seen it belongs to this friend of yours and suggested a facebook friendship through that.
Have you both checked in on Facebook at the swimming pool? You might have also used Facebook multiple times at the pool, where they geolocate you, and then find people that have similar geolocation at same time, same place?